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Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce
Maybe we're blind to it because the thought of forcing ourselves on a woman never enters our mind.
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And that's awesome that it gets to be that way for you. Not being a horrible person is step one. Making an effort to remember that other people have every reason to be afraid of horrible people is step two.
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Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce
I don't see how the "new system" changes that. Regardless of the evenings conversations, in the end if he's a rapist and wants her, he'll try to take her.
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The new system does very little for you, a not-horrible person. But it makes it easier for us to figure out which people are horrible. Women do have
some ability to extricate ourselves from borderline situations--and history has shown that we will be blamed if we don't. So anything that makes it clearer is a good thing.
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Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce
...but I don't worry about that every time I drive or I'd drive myself nuts.
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Well, they do say "bitches be crazy."