Is there a way you could reopen the question of temporary spousal support in court? Say your head wasn't straight and you've realized it's necessary? It's one way to get the stbx to hurry up and finalize things, plus other benefits.
I wish you weren't isolated. This is hard enough, you need peeps. I like Dana's idea. Maybe we could work out a weird anon thread in which only every other, or every third, post would actually be yours, to throw her off? Or maybe that's too weird. Anyway - why not start a new handle? Be boring for the first few posts so she figures it isn't you and loses interest. Then be yourself.
