most excellent
I'm a chronic over-tipper and I know it's some psychological problem. I want to be considered nice by strangers I'll never see again. But in the case of, like, diner waitresses, you know every $1 counts to them. Is there a cheaper way to feel good?
I remember when a diner waitress was particularly awesome, and J gave her a big tip by walking up to her personally after the meal, and saying this is for you, thank you. It can still make me smile.