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LabRat · 01-24-2007, 10:59 AM

OC- good to hear from you, too bad it isn't under better circumstances...

You need to maintain your level of trust with him, by continuing to not lie to him.
#1, tell him that you do not plan to take the child away from him/them.
#2, when the child is born, a paternity test is needed before anyone should make any moves regarding the future of that child. When is it due?
#3 Your son right now seems to be willing to do what it takes to be a good parent. Let him know what that is going to entail. Reliable income, reliable housing etc. He needs to get his ducks in a row before his (potentially) child arrives. If he can prove he is prepared for fatherhood better than the mother is, it may help him should custody issues arise. <-- but that may be getting ahead of yourself.

01-24-2007, 10:59 AM	#133
LabRat twatfaced two legged bumhole Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 3,143	OC- good to hear from you, too bad it isn't under better circumstances... You need to maintain your level of trust with him, by continuing to not lie to him. #1, tell him that you do not plan to take the child away from him/them. #2, when the child is born, a paternity test is needed before anyone should make any moves regarding the future of that child. When is it due? #3 Your son right now seems to be willing to do what it takes to be a good parent. Let him know what that is going to entail. Reliable income, reliable housing etc. He needs to get his ducks in a row before his (potentially) child arrives. If he can prove he is prepared for fatherhood better than the mother is, it may help him should custody issues arise. <-- but that may be getting ahead of yourself. __________________ Strength does not come from how much weight you can lift, or how many miles you can run. It comes from knowing that you set a goal, and rose to the challenge. Strength comes from within.