OMG, I'm so sorry, I've kind of been skimming recently and totally missed this.
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Originally Posted by Clodfobble
You will process it, in time. But don't "should" yourself.
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Originally Posted by limey
Clod is right. There is no “should”. As you say, sometimes it’s a million miles away, as though it never happened. And sometimes it kicks you in the guts with literally physical force. Feel what you feel. Do what’s right for you. We’re all here for you, buddy. X
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These things.
I did not go through this, I had 2.5 years' warning and it wasn't my child. I can't even and don't want to imagine. But I am bereaved. If I can help in any way at any point now or in the future, LMK.