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i was wrong about him lying because he is afraid of my reactions...that was, i guess, my twisted way of trying to rationalize why he is lying. we talked. he says he IS a liar and that he has a deceitful personality and that it's NOT my fault, i am a victim of it, and he needs to go to therapy and work this out on his own...he says it is just how he is and he wants to change, but doesn't know how. and i didn't coerce him into saying any of this, i just shut up and let him talk...these were his thoughts.
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