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Originally posted by staceyv
so, you mean i should just continue on with life, have sex with him tonight, bake him some muffins and smile? god, i wish i could. but i don't know anymore if his love is real or a stupid act. i don't know if he married me for a green card just so he could be with her and then changed his mind and decided to be with me,... i don't want that! i don't want to be his second choice and accept it and be nice to him and love him, because if that was the case, he would not deserve it.
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But...if he realizes that he wants to be with you and only you, then I don't see what the problem is. Especially when you say he does all these little things for you. The grass isn't always greener...
good luck.
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