Yes, it IS horseshit...to get your gherkin jerked by words on a screen written by folks you don't know is horseshit.
To conflate the shenanigans in the cellar (or any forum) with rape is horseshit (horseshit with the intent of causing 'reaction' instead of 'response').
If your feelings are hurt it's because you invest the words with meaning, not because the words have any meaning in and of themselves.
Again: grow up...or: get thee to a *nunnery.
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http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/nunnery