Sparkie...I just thought someone should say something. I know how disheartening it can be when you're looking for an ear or two and no one can hear. It takes a lot to share those sorts of things with people you've never met, so I admire you for that.
I hope you can come to some understanding with your fella. What a battle to face...and what a crazy way to face it. Alone...
It's going to be pretty tough on you too, so I hope you do have a support network if you decide to go this path with him. You're going to need all the love and support you can find.
If you need someone to blow off steam to, go ahead and send me a pm or something. I'm a long way away, but sometimes that makes it easier.
