when i was 16, my best friend and i used to have sex on the same bed with our boyfriends all the time, but her and i never messed around, nor did we share boyfriends (although her man DID feel me up and called me the next day to tell me about it, but she didn't believe me...)
and this is sad...:when i was 15 i was a little slut. don't know why, i was just stupid and easy. (i'm not like that anymore
) so anyway, i was hanging out with this guy and i drank 2- 40 ouces and i smoked a BUNCH of weed and ended up sleeping with two guys at the same time.
i felt like a slut the next day. somehow word got out around school and i developed a bad reputation-with the girls (i guess a good one with the guys, because they all seemed to like me...)
at some point i figured out that when you let a guy bang you right away, they have no respect for you and don't want to see you again. it seems so simple and common sense to me now, but back then i didn't get it.