Part of being openly polygamous is having to deal with situations like this. So for me it would really depend on the circumstances. If I know my best friend is also poly, I'd make sure her spouse had spoken to her first about it, then bring in my S.O. and we could have a nice friendly chat. If, however, I know my best friend is NOT poly, I would inform her immediately, put her spouse on warning, and make sure my S.O. also knew about what had happened.
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