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There is so much concern about name-calling and getting "personal". For some reason it's seen as off-limits and "morally reprehensible".
But there is also truth. When someone acts like a jerk, I feel like it's okay to say, "Hey, you're acting like a jerk. What's up with that?" For that person to then come back and say, "Oh, well, now you're getting personal!" is incomprehensible to me.
Also, to have good friends, you have to treat them with respect. That's the way it should be, anyway.
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