I think it might have been somebody here who said, if something seems overwhelming to you - just ignore it.
Once I started to make my own decisions, I found it to be great. I remember I started with the front of the refrigerator. Off with all the shit I never would have put up there. Left with the basics, it was suddenly my fridge again.
My bowls to eat out of.
My candles to light up.
My bass rig right in the fucking living room, taking up all kinds of space -- YAH! She would have HATED it! We would have had the biggest fight in the world over putting it there! I never would have put it there, just to avoid that fight! And yet THERE IT IS!
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