Badger Epiphany

[jimhelm]

To everything, turn, turn, turn. -some hippie

I know I was born and I know that I'll die, but in between is mine. ....I am.... mine. -edward veddar


I see your situation through the lenses of my own... As we do...
And although you precede me and wisdom and in age.... I think I precede you in experience...
from the outside looking in, it seems a foregone conclusion.

you have always referred to your wife as she who must be obeyed, or described her irrational behavior....
everything I know about your relationship, everything you've told us about her..... it is all negative. I don't recall ever hearing you say how you love her.... Maybe that's just the nature of how people complain about spouses....


it is a big ugly mess, unraveling two intertwined lives. no one can know if you should, and you cannot make swmbo happy. nor she you.

Where is your center?