There's never going to be a good time to tell you - Page 8

BigV · 03-12-2018, 08:32 AM

monster, you and Beest and the whole aquatic clan are my dear friends. I feel horrible right along with you. You all have my love from waaay out here. So, so sorry.

Undertoad · 03-12-2018, 08:38 AM

I will say little, but know that I feel it hard.

Glinda · 03-12-2018, 10:11 AM

I can't imagine how hard this must be. If you need to vent, rant, wail, sob . . . know that we are all here for you.

lumberjim · 03-12-2018, 10:53 AM

so soon. god.

Good day, Beest. I said Good Day.

sorry Monster. Let me know if you need anything at all.

Gravdigr · 03-12-2018, 02:28 PM

Shit. I hate this for you guys.

monster · 03-12-2018, 04:25 PM

Any day now. maybe today. it's like we suddenly plunged off a cliff. I'm so sad and lonely (but I don't want any other company). He's just sleeping, occasionally waking to shift position but ignoring me mostly. he knows I'm here and appreciates it, but just has other issues to deal with

monster · 03-12-2018, 04:29 PM

and.... we did most of the necessaries -wills financial plan etc, but we didn't get to the passwords for everything. So I'mm'a need a good hacker. i wonder how good thor really is? he seems to accidentally manage to get round any app/game blocker we put on his phone

(real worry, though, I don't know his email password -he had to change it and I never learned the new one....)

Clodfobble · 03-12-2018, 05:10 PM

I keep checking this thread with a lump in my throat every time it updates. Your family is our family and I'm sorry.

monster · 03-12-2018, 05:25 PM

ya know, I'll start another thread when he's gone, one that's straight to the point. so don't worry, cf. thanks all. i just decided to facebook message a group of swim mom friends and that was helpful. I felt less alone

xoxoxoBruce · 03-12-2018, 05:26 PM

Is banana lady here?

monster · 03-12-2018, 05:32 PM

kind of.

she's in a hotel round the corner. My awesome sis helped change the short notice flights she had for April to immediate flights, but she was only supposed to be visiting while he could still spend quality time with people, but it's suddenly gone so fast.... He just wants to slip away quietly, just me here, no kids, no mom. No-one watching him when he looks and feels like crap. she leave thursday. allegedly. call me harsh, i don't fucking care. i want to spend all my time looking after and worrying about him, not her. She "doesn't want to be any bother" but she is

zippyt · 03-12-2018, 05:33 PM

So sorry to hear this

DanaC · 03-12-2018, 06:04 PM

We're as here as we can be hon.

BigV · 03-12-2018, 09:48 PM

Yep, I'm here too.

Be whatever you want. No apologies, no justifications, be, be with. You are all good.

fargon · 03-13-2018, 07:27 AM

We are here for you, and your family.

03-12-2018, 08:32 AM	#106
BigV Goon Squad Leader Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Seattle Posts: 27,063	monster, you and Beest and the whole aquatic clan are my dear friends. I feel horrible right along with you. You all have my love from waaay out here. So, so sorry. __________________ Be Just and Fear Not.

03-12-2018, 10:53 AM	#109
lumberjim I can hear my ears Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 25,571	so soon. god. Good day, Beest. I said Good Day. sorry Monster. Let me know if you need anything at all. __________________ This body holding me reminds me of my own mortality Embrace this moment, remember We are eternal, all this pain is an illusion ~MJKeenan

03-12-2018, 02:28 PM	#110
Gravdigr The Un-Tuckian Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: South Central...KY that is Posts: 39,517	Shit. I hate this for you guys. __________________ These statements have not been evaluated by the FDA, EPA, FBI, DEA, CDC, or FDIC. These statements are not intended to diagnose, cause, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. If you feel you have been harmed/offended by, or, disagree with any of the above statements or images, please feel free to fuck right off.

03-12-2018, 04:25 PM	#111
monster I hear them call the tide Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Perpetual Chaos Posts: 30,852	Any day now. maybe today. it's like we suddenly plunged off a cliff. I'm so sad and lonely (but I don't want any other company). He's just sleeping, occasionally waking to shift position but ignoring me mostly. he knows I'm here and appreciates it, but just has other issues to deal with __________________ The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity Amelia Earhart

03-12-2018, 04:29 PM	#112
monster I hear them call the tide Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Perpetual Chaos Posts: 30,852	and.... we did most of the necessaries -wills financial plan etc, but we didn't get to the passwords for everything. So I'mm'a need a good hacker. i wonder how good thor really is? he seems to accidentally manage to get round any app/game blocker we put on his phone (real worry, though, I don't know his email password -he had to change it and I never learned the new one....) __________________ The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity Amelia Earhart

03-12-2018, 08:38 AM	#107
Undertoad Radical Centrist Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Cottage of Prussia Posts: 31,423	I will say little, but know that I feel it hard.

03-12-2018, 10:11 AM	#108
Glinda Fucktard Resistance League Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: 1.14 acres of heaven Posts: 1,512	I can't imagine how hard this must be. If you need to vent, rant, wail, sob . . . know that we are all here for you.

03-12-2018, 05:10 PM	#113
Clodfobble UNDER CONDITIONAL MITIGATION Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 20,012	I keep checking this thread with a lump in my throat every time it updates. Your family is our family and I'm sorry. __________________ My book My other book My spirit animal

03-12-2018, 05:25 PM	#114
monster I hear them call the tide Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Perpetual Chaos Posts: 30,852	ya know, I'll start another thread when he's gone, one that's straight to the point. so don't worry, cf. thanks all. i just decided to facebook message a group of swim mom friends and that was helpful. I felt less alone __________________ The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity Amelia Earhart

03-12-2018, 05:26 PM	#115
xoxoxoBruce The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71,105	Is banana lady here? __________________ The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.

03-12-2018, 05:32 PM	#116
monster I hear them call the tide Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Perpetual Chaos Posts: 30,852	kind of. she's in a hotel round the corner. My awesome sis helped change the short notice flights she had for April to immediate flights, but she was only supposed to be visiting while he could still spend quality time with people, but it's suddenly gone so fast.... He just wants to slip away quietly, just me here, no kids, no mom. No-one watching him when he looks and feels like crap. she leave thursday. allegedly. call me harsh, i don't fucking care. i want to spend all my time looking after and worrying about him, not her. She "doesn't want to be any bother" but she is __________________ The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity Amelia Earhart

03-12-2018, 05:33 PM	#117
zippyt LONG LIVE KING ZIPPY! per Feetz Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Arkansas Posts: 7,661	So sorry to hear this __________________ "Success is getting what you want. Happiness is wanting what you get. " Brother Dave Gardner

03-12-2018, 09:48 PM	#119
BigV Goon Squad Leader Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Seattle Posts: 27,063	Yep, I'm here too. Be whatever you want. No apologies, no justifications, be, be with. You are all good. __________________ Be Just and Fear Not.

03-13-2018, 07:27 AM	#120
fargon Person who doesn't update the user title Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: La Crosse, WI Posts: 8,924	We are here for you, and your family. __________________ Annoy the ones that ignore you!!! I live a blessed life I Love my Country, I Fear the Government!!! Heavily medicated for the good of mankind.

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