The Cellar  

Go Back   The Cellar > Main > Home Base
FAQ Community Calendar Today's Posts Search

Home Base A starting point, and place for threads don't seem to belong anywhere else

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 02-01-2013, 06:28 AM   #31
Aliantha
trying hard to be a better person
 
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Brisbane, Australia
Posts: 16,493
Look after yourself Trilby. Its important. Xx
__________________
Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber
Aliantha is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-01-2013, 06:35 AM   #32
DanaC
We have to go back, Kate!
 
Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: Yorkshire
Posts: 25,964
*hugs*

We're here when you need to talk. Rest up now.
__________________
Quote:
There's only so much punishment a man can take in pursuit of punani. - Sundae
http://sites.google.com/site/danispoetry/
DanaC is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-01-2013, 07:10 AM   #33
glatt
 
Join Date: Jul 2003
Location: Arlington, VA
Posts: 27,717
Thanks for checking in.

Be kind to yourself.

glatt is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-01-2013, 07:32 AM   #34
BigV
Goon Squad Leader
 
Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: Seattle
Posts: 27,063
Very glad to hear from you Trilby. Please take care, please. 'sgonna be ok. Eventually.
__________________
Be Just and Fear Not.
BigV is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-01-2013, 09:51 AM   #35
Spexxvet
Makes some feel uncomfortable
 
Join Date: Dec 2005
Posts: 10,346
I am so glad to hear from you today, Tril. You had me worried. Sad to hear about Autumn
__________________
"I'm certainly free, nay compelled, to spread the gospel of Spex. " - xoxoxoBruce
Spexxvet is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-01-2013, 10:00 AM   #36
infinite monkey
Person who doesn't update the user title
 
Join Date: Mar 2011
Posts: 13,002
I was glad to see your post.

Stay in bed if it helps. It's a rough mourning, losing a beloved pet. Remember you are loved.
infinite monkey is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-01-2013, 10:37 AM   #37
orthodoc
Not Suspicious, Merely Canadian
 
Join Date: Oct 2006
Posts: 3,774
God to hear from you, Trilby. Sending hugs.
__________________
The greatness of a nation and its moral progress can be judged by the way its animals are treated. - Ghandi
orthodoc is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-01-2013, 11:52 AM   #38
Chocolatl
Glutton for Gluttony
 
Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: Tampa, FL
Posts: 1,409
Sending wishes for peace your way, Tril. Take care.
Chocolatl is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-01-2013, 01:13 PM   #39
Sundae
polaroid of perfection
 
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: West Yorkshire
Posts: 24,185
Spoke to Bri today. Still in pieces of course.
Have told her to call or post whenever she wants to give her pain a voice.
__________________
Life's hard you know, so strike a pose on a Cadillac
Sundae is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-01-2013, 02:21 PM   #40
limey
Encroaching on your decrees
 
Join Date: Feb 2004
Location: An island within the south-west coast of Scotland
Posts: 7,016
Am truly relieved to see Tril post here, and that Sundae has managed to speak to her. My heart goes out to you, Tril. Coddle yourself and stay in bed all you want. X


Sent by thought transference
__________________
Living it up on the edge ... of civilisation, within the southwest coast of
limey is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-01-2013, 02:32 PM   #41
Sundae
polaroid of perfection
 
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: West Yorkshire
Posts: 24,185
She's spoken to Dani too, as a recently bereaved pet-owner.
Sorry to talk about you as if you're not here babba. But I think today will definitely be a duvet day for you.
__________________
Life's hard you know, so strike a pose on a Cadillac
Sundae is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-01-2013, 05:25 PM   #42
Lola Bunny
Junior Master Dwellar
 
Join Date: May 2011
Posts: 2,728
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Losing someone you love is extremely difficult. Mourn but please don't blame yourself. You may not be able to accept it now and no reason can alleviate the pain. However, we all have to use reasons and religion or whatever help us get through life, where there are so many unexplainable things going on. Don't think the lost of Autumn as your fault. Maybe it is his time to go. Even if you had a lease on him, he may go some other way. I hope you'll be able to feel less pain in the near future.

HUGZZZZZZZZZZZZ
Lola Bunny is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-02-2013, 08:58 AM   #43
Griff
still says videotape
 
Join Date: Feb 2001
Posts: 26,813
I'm sorry I missed this when it happened. Let yourself feel the pain of loss then recall the sweetness of your friend and keep that.
__________________
If you would only recognize that life is hard, things would be so much easier for you.
- Louis D. Brandeis
Griff is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-02-2013, 12:16 PM   #44
IamSam
Now living the life of a POW
 
Join Date: Dec 2012
Location: The Lost Corners of Colorado
Posts: 202
Trilby, I'm so sad reading this thread. Losing a beloved pet can be almost like losing a family member. It helps me to write a little poem or story about the 4-legged friend whose loss I mourn. Maybe doing that would help you also, especially since you're a good writer.

Hope you get beyond the drinking plus pills very quickly - like yesterday. I'm sending good thoughts your way.
__________________
This space left intentionally blank.
IamSam is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-02-2013, 12:30 PM   #45
plthijinx
Master Dwellar
 
Join Date: Aug 2003
Posts: 4,197
be well and strong woman! this, like other things, shall pass and get better. remember i got locked up for crimes i did not commit and lost my mother august 1st of 2007 while i was on hiatus from society. that sucked major balls. but you know what? i got past the pain and today am happy and thankful for such a great woman in my life and i remember her always....everyday.

__________________
For your dreams to come true, you must first have a dream.
plthijinx is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply


Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump

All times are GMT -5. The time now is 03:17 PM.


Powered by: vBulletin Version 3.8.1
Copyright ©2000 - 2024, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.