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Old 02-15-2007, 07:33 PM   #1
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An Indecent Proposal....

Weird stuff happens to me....


A successful married business man has propositioned me.

Ongoing arrangement, he travels abroad a lot (UK, US and Asia) wants a *fun* companion, all expenses paid.



Of course, with the whole Army dude thing happening, I'm not doing anything to stuff that up....but seriously.

He's funny and attractive, even if he is 10 years older than me.

Would that be just a prostitute or well paid escort?
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Old 02-15-2007, 08:15 PM   #2
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I think we need more information, such as, Would he pay you money directly? and Would he require sex?
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Old 02-15-2007, 08:27 PM   #3
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*all expenses paid*.

Flights (business class), accommodation, spending money, food etc.
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Old 02-15-2007, 08:30 PM   #4
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not a prostitute.

why label it?
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Old 02-15-2007, 08:37 PM   #5
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Women really do date 10, 15, 60 years up (ahem, Anna). I don't understand why.

Sorry I have no real advice, just a filler comment.
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Old 02-15-2007, 09:21 PM   #6
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Women really do date 10, 15, 60 years up (ahem, Anna). I don't understand why.

Sorry I have no real advice, just a filler comment.
My man is a year and a half younger than me. Don't despair!

Ducks, make sure you ticket is round-trip, and you should be good to go.
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Old 02-15-2007, 09:29 PM   #7
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not a prostitute.

why label it?
geez - have you not learned that I am totally anal about such things.

I like labels and I want to know whether you guys would be thinking ...."little homewrecking slut"
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Old 02-15-2007, 09:46 PM   #8
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I am totally anal
Well if your married friend is into that, go for it . . . .
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Old 02-15-2007, 10:11 PM   #9
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That's the arrangement my wife and I have. You calling her a ho?
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Old 02-15-2007, 10:52 PM   #10
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I like labels and I want to know whether you guys would be thinking ...."little homewrecking slut"
Well, for me...

I have no problem with the idea of him basically paying you for sex. I definitely do have a problem with the fact that he's married. YMMV
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Old 02-15-2007, 11:11 PM   #11
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For the record....

I am very much in...umm...lust with the Army dude and wont be pursuing this *arrangement*.
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Old 02-15-2007, 11:30 PM   #12
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ahh but you DID THINK about it !!!
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Old 02-16-2007, 04:33 AM   #13
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I'm with clod on this one. It's one thing to act as a companion to someone etc, but the whole wife thing just makes it sordid. Maybe I'm getting old and fogeyish or something, but I get pissed off with married men who proposition single women these days.
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Old 02-16-2007, 04:52 AM   #14
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I'll do it! Pass him my phone number please.....

Actually IRL I have turned down trips to Japan, China and Spain which were offered all expenses paid. Sex was never explicitly requested, but there was enough of a suggestion there that I didn't feel comfortable - I didn't want to have sex with 2 out of the 3 men.

I wish I'd gone to Japan though - as I got to know that guy better I fancied the pants off him....
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Old 02-16-2007, 05:38 AM   #15
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Why would you do it now if you wouldnt do it then SG?

Curious, thats all.

Ali - you surprised me with that!! I know you are free-love n all that, but didnt know you would have a problem with the whole married thingiemebob.

Zippy- bite me!! I didnt think about it, well, I thought about what it would be like, but I didnt think about taking him up on it. Occasionally, I have some morals :p
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