how many different sexual partners have you had? - Page 3

lumberjim · 07-12-2004, 07:06 PM

yup. depends entirely on the wife in question. I can and do tell jinx everything. now, if i had married stacey......i think i'd be a little more clandestine, and only talk in a foreign language or something.

Elspode · 07-12-2004, 10:26 PM

I've always found it a no win situation. Tell a story online you forgot to tell her, and she thinks you were hiding it from her. Tell a story online you did tell her and she thinks you are reliving a fond memory and you like it better than her. Tell a stretcher and she'll narc you out.

Nah...I voted in the poll, but that was anonymous. :thumpsup:

zippyt · 07-12-2004, 11:14 PM

I agree with HP , truth is best. My wife and I had a frank talk befor we got married.

And I had an AIDS test for the first few years we were togather.

Sun_Sparkz · 07-12-2004, 11:34 PM

If you are with someone, does it really matter how many previous partners they have had?

I am in the 1-5 bracket, and for my age and stage - i think thats quite enough!! If i was with a partner who had substatially more than that, i would be really intimidated ie. they have slept with so many people, what if some of them were better than me?! Maybe sex doesn't mean to them what it means to me?!

I have no idea how many people my new boyfriend has been with, we haven't discussed it yet. but i don't think i want to know. I don't want to taint anything. When you found out how many ppl your SO had been with, how did it make you feel? (if it was a lot)

jaguar · 07-13-2004, 01:07 AM

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yup. depends entirely on the wife in question. I can and do tell jinx everything. now, if i had married stacey......i think i'd be a little more clandestine, and only talk in a foreign language or something.

Well yes, that would be bigamy :P

Brigliadore · 07-13-2004, 01:29 AM

I was just giving HP a hard time, its one of the perks of being a wife.

Rex: My wife has me between a rock and a hard place.
Miles Massey: That's her job. You should respect that.

Catwoman · 07-13-2004, 06:29 AM

Mine currently stands at 7. You see, I'm not the sex-obsessed tiger you thought I was. I'm quite innocent really, more like a kitten, or a very small manx.

If you ask me how many times I've actually had sex though, well, I've tried to count but I always run out of numbers.

jdbutler · 07-13-2004, 06:52 AM

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Originally Posted by jaguar

Dear penthouse, I was a shy guy in my early 20s.........

Bwahahahahaha!

ladysycamore · 07-13-2004, 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by lumberjim

i was thinking actual intercourse.

and lsyc, you're not curious about sex? it seems like the one topic that is underdiscussed here. i know you're all perverts. y'all must have "other" boards where you get that out of your systems.

Not about how many sex parnters one has had (although, if the number is out of this world, I do tend to arch an eyebrow.

). More along the lines of actual sexual activity (like they show in the Real Sex shows...veddy interesting that show is...heh!) and what different people are into, etc.

And you're right: there *are* other forums that I sign into every so often on DelphiForums that discusses sex/sexual issues. That reminds me, it's been a while since I visited those boards. Thanks for the reminder.

I was half joking about the sex "definition"...I knew what you meant.

As far as how many partners? I think I've already "exposed" myself in another thread about sex, but Sycamore has been the only man worthy enough to get these goodies. :thumpsup:

Cyber Wolf · 07-13-2004, 01:13 PM

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Originally Posted by lumberjim

i was thinking actual intercourse.

Is it possible for me to say zero without being under the age of 13?

ladysycamore · 07-13-2004, 03:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Cyber Wolf

Is it possible for me to say zero without being under the age of 13?

Sure, I don't see why not. If this question had been asked of me about 5 years ago, I would have said zero too (and I was WELL over the age of 13).

cowhead · 07-13-2004, 10:50 PM

oh dear..

I'm standing at 34 (heh one for each year) and that's counting only intercourse.. I was a late bloomer (well... except the first time, which I have mentioned kinda put me off of the whole thing for quite a while) there were a few years in there though.. playing in a band, and finishing my culinary degree.. the ladies loved it! cook me some food.. play me a song...*sigh* I was quite the whore, (although very very careful about disease..an old friend of mine died of aids in the middle/late 80's.. kinda shook us all up) although these days I am very gun-shy... the other day I ran into a girl I've known for a while.. and she told me she had had a crush on me for about 3 years now... blew my mind.. I don't expect that anymore

) sorry I don't mean to sound arrogant.. I'm not.. the funny thing (to me).. is that I've never WANTED more than one person (no, I haven't met her yet..well.. maybe I have?... kinda hoping I do one of these days..although I guess I have been engaged 4 times... bad bad cowhead..)

I don't like one night stands.. I never have.. but eh? any port in a storm?

i can list first names if you like I remember all but 4 of them...heh.. once again with the arrogance

here's something funny and even related
http://www.scarysquirrel.org/special...oamy/date.html

Carbonated_Brains · 07-14-2004, 12:38 AM

Actual intercourse?

Can I switch my 100+ to a 1?

Elionwyr · 07-18-2004, 09:38 PM

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Originally Posted by ladysycamore

Is this one of those things where you have to define "sex" (personally, I say it's intercourse, just to separate oral, mutual masterbation, etc.), but you know how people are, especially after the whole Clinton affair.

Mmmmmmm...I'm never sure, to be honest.
I had one Grand Internet Phone Sex Galore affair that I'm never quite sure how to categorize...

LSMFT · 07-19-2004, 05:30 PM

Having been married for some time now, I'm no longer queasy about my history. Two reasons the # is a little high is I went to a co-ed boarding school for skiers, and worked as a bicycle mechanic (...really) for almost 20 years.

View Poll Results: how many people have you 'done it' with?
0.....yeah, i'm the one	3	4.69%
1-5	28	43.75%
6-15	14	21.88%
16-30	7	10.94%
31-50	6	9.38%
50-100	3	4.69%
100+	3	4.69%
Voters: 64. You may not vote on this poll

07-12-2004, 07:06 PM	#31
lumberjim I can hear my ears Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 25,571	yup. depends entirely on the wife in question. I can and do tell jinx everything. now, if i had married stacey......i think i'd be a little more clandestine, and only talk in a foreign language or something. __________________ This body holding me reminds me of my own mortality Embrace this moment, remember We are eternal, all this pain is an illusion ~MJKeenan

07-12-2004, 10:26 PM	#32
Elspode When Do I Get Virtual Unreality? Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Raytown, Missouri Posts: 12,719	I've always found it a no win situation. Tell a story online you forgot to tell her, and she thinks you were hiding it from her. Tell a story online you did tell her and she thinks you are reliving a fond memory and you like it better than her. Tell a stretcher and she'll narc you out. Nah...I voted in the poll, but that was anonymous. :thumpsup: __________________ "To those of you who are wearing ties, I think my dad would appreciate it if you took them off." - Robert Moog

07-12-2004, 11:14 PM	#33
zippyt LONG LIVE KING ZIPPY! per Feetz Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Arkansas Posts: 7,661	I agree with HP , truth is best. My wife and I had a frank talk befor we got married. And I had an AIDS test for the first few years we were togather. __________________ "Success is getting what you want. Happiness is wanting what you get. " Brother Dave Gardner

07-12-2004, 11:34 PM	#34
Sun_Sparkz Has Body Temperature Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: I come from a land downunder Posts: 1,105	If you are with someone, does it really matter how many previous partners they have had? I am in the 1-5 bracket, and for my age and stage - i think thats quite enough!! If i was with a partner who had substatially more than that, i would be really intimidated ie. they have slept with so many people, what if some of them were better than me?! Maybe sex doesn't mean to them what it means to me?! I have no idea how many people my new boyfriend has been with, we haven't discussed it yet. but i don't think i want to know. I don't want to taint anything. When you found out how many ppl your SO had been with, how did it make you feel? (if it was a lot) __________________ We'll never be as young as we are right now

07-13-2004, 01:29 AM	#36
Brigliadore stays crispy in milk Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: A strange planet called Utah Posts: 270	I was just giving HP a hard time, its one of the perks of being a wife. Rex: My wife has me between a rock and a hard place. Miles Massey: That's her job. You should respect that. __________________ I cant think of anything to put here so this is all I am going to write.

07-13-2004, 06:29 AM	#37
Catwoman stalking a Tom Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: on the edge of the english channel Posts: 1,000	Mine currently stands at 7. You see, I'm not the sex-obsessed tiger you thought I was. I'm quite innocent really, more like a kitten, or a very small manx. If you ask me how many times I've actually had sex though, well, I've tried to count but I always run out of numbers. __________________ I've decided I'm not going to have a signature anymore.

07-13-2004, 10:50 PM	#42
cowhead halve your cake and eat it too. Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Georgia.. by way of Lawrence Kansas Posts: 1,359	oh dear.. I'm standing at 34 (heh one for each year) and that's counting only intercourse.. I was a late bloomer (well... except the first time, which I have mentioned kinda put me off of the whole thing for quite a while) there were a few years in there though.. playing in a band, and finishing my culinary degree.. the ladies loved it! cook me some food.. play me a song...sigh I was quite the whore, (although very very careful about disease..an old friend of mine died of aids in the middle/late 80's.. kinda shook us all up) although these days I am very gun-shy... the other day I ran into a girl I've known for a while.. and she told me she had had a crush on me for about 3 years now... blew my mind.. I don't expect that anymore ) sorry I don't mean to sound arrogant.. I'm not.. the funny thing (to me).. is that I've never WANTED more than one person (no, I haven't met her yet..well.. maybe I have?... kinda hoping I do one of these days..although I guess I have been engaged 4 times... bad bad cowhead..) I don't like one night stands.. I never have.. but eh? any port in a storm? i can list first names if you like I remember all but 4 of them...heh.. once again with the arrogance here's something funny and even related http://www.scarysquirrel.org/special...oamy/date.html __________________ no my child.. this is not my desire..I'm digging for fire. Last edited by cowhead; 07-13-2004 at 10:54 PM. Reason: i wanted to add a link

07-14-2004, 12:38 AM	#43
Carbonated_Brains Does it show up here when I type? Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Between the smoky layers of a prosciutto sandwich! Posts: 355	Actual intercourse? Can I switch my 100+ to a 1?

07-19-2004, 05:30 PM	#45
LSMFT Confounded Conjuror Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Inthamoment, Ny Posts: 33	Having been married for some time now, I'm no longer queasy about my history. Two reasons the # is a little high is I went to a co-ed boarding school for skiers, and worked as a bicycle mechanic (...really) for almost 20 years. __________________ I'm not sorry anymore.

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