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Old 09-04-2012, 07:59 AM   #3196
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Good luck!
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Old 09-04-2012, 08:11 AM   #3197
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Well, ahem, Anon (giggles) ... you probably know this already, but I'd just like to say:

This is your chance to be heard. Speak loud and clear and long. Back up your facts with examples. Show them your documentation, which we know you have. Do not pull punches. Stick to your guns. Name names. Do not let them argue you out of anything. No prisoners.

This has to work. MAKE IT SO.

Grrr. Go get em, tiger.


ETA: oh, and avoid cliches like the plague.
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Good luck!
Thanks guys. She has gotten earsful already from those she's met with. One person, the one who has already submitted a resignation prior due to the office issues (a long-termer, a wonderful person) has to go back because 2 hours wasn't enough!

And Zen, as god is my witness, i'd rather be boiled in oil than stoop to using cliches! When the going gets tough, the tough get going, and Rome wasn't built in a day. When in doubt, I shall consult my inner child.
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Old 09-04-2012, 08:40 AM   #3198
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Anon - can't say any more than the others.
This is where you are firm but fair and say your piece to someone who is not emotionally involved in the process.

So you be unemotional too and ESPECIALLY push the point about not being customer-facing. Pretty much every job I've done has put emphasis on the public face of the company while marking all targets and bonuses by different criteria.

Good luck, lass.
Or lad of course, Mr Anon.

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Old 09-04-2012, 10:35 AM   #3199
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hey Anonymous

Good luck. not a cliche.

a thought--what is important for the decision makers? It may very well be different from what they say is important. It's helpful to try to understand their motivations.

I'll be rooting for you (just not that way).
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Old 09-04-2012, 05:20 PM   #3200
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It went well. Talked for an hour and a half. We shall see what we shall see but I had my say: diplomatically but truthfully.

Thanks all! I was nervous.
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Old 09-04-2012, 06:13 PM   #3201
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An hour and a half! That's good.
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Old 09-07-2012, 10:07 PM   #3202
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Good for you - At least you didn't take up an infinite amount of their time monkey-ing around.
Straight to the point, getting to the heart of the matter and staying laser-focused on the issues is the way to go.
Do it right or don't do it at all, nothing half-assed - cuz we all know that dog won't hunt!

Go team.
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Old 09-10-2012, 03:28 PM   #3203
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I've had a sausage-y day today.
Meant to get lunch on the way to school, but I admit I left home late.
Got a lift from a passing car (containing school-children!) so no chance to go shop, but thought it better to arrive early than late.

Deliberately went to change books at 11.50, knowing I could slip into the Hall and natter to the dinner ladies. Didn't know what they'd have, but luckily it was sausages (links). They offered me a whole meal (which we are supposed to pay for, but it's not what you know, it's who you know). Walked away with two sausies AND a bread roll. Slipped it into the staffroom and had a lovely sausage cob with brown sauce yummy, yum, yum.

And tonight the 'rents had sausage, mashipots and beans. Again, refused the accompaniments, but also the sausages this time. Mum decided to cook some for me anyway and put them in the fridge. So tomorrow I will add one sliced sausage to pasta and sauce and have a lovely lunch.
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Old 09-10-2012, 04:53 PM   #3204
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don't forget the challah
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Old 09-19-2012, 10:29 AM   #3205
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Well... Gotta go! Catch you sometime in 2013...
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Old 09-27-2012, 11:36 AM   #3206
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I've seen the photo of Megan Stammers and Jeremy Forrest below and they are described as arm in arm. On more than one source.

Now when I've read this phrase before I have always pictured one person with their arm crooked and the other person with their arm slipped through. In a m/f coupling it will usually be the female who "takes" the man's arm, as he is usually taller.

I would identify this photo as having their arms around eachother. I'm puzzled.

For anyone who isn't aware of the story it's a 15 yo British schoolgirl on the run in France with her 30yo maths teacher.
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Old 09-27-2012, 03:18 PM   #3207
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This was at the top of the RadioTimes listings page. Caught my eye somewhat.
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Old 09-27-2012, 03:22 PM   #3208
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So I clicked. Looks really good fun. If I lived nearer I'd be tempted.

http://www.thecursed.co.uk/

That's some serious Halloweeny stuff.

The nightwalks for adults sound great. But the Kid's day sounds awesome. Freaky Puppet show, Monster Maze, Haunted House, brilliant.
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Old 10-03-2012, 02:54 PM   #3209
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Grim thing happened today at school.
Miss G was on playground duty for Key Stage 2.
A Year 5 boy collided with her (10 yo).
From reports she was stationary.

She was obviously badly hurt - although on her feet - and a First Aider was summoned to the playground.
Then Miss G was carried to the Office, where away from the childer she was able to show her pain.
An ambulance was called and she was given gas and air before being loaded onto a stretcher and taken to A&E.

Turns out her kneecap was dislocated (BLEURGH!)
The hospital pumped her full of painkillers and popped it back into the right place.

Bless her.
She was supposed to be taking Circuit Training as an after school club this afternoon.
She's only about 23 and fit as a butcher's dog.

I cringe whenever I think about it.
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Old 10-03-2012, 03:07 PM   #3210
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Dislocated patella = SO painful! Poor thing. Glad they took care of her quickly.
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