A little lost

12-31-2011, 02:00 AM

i thought this was a site where a sub could explore and maybe ask questions... but i did not see anywhere i could do that?

Sundae · 12-31-2011, 07:26 AM

We have some old threads regarding dom and sub themes.
The majority of posters now would not be able to give you personal or specialised advice.

You are welcome here, but in truth there are other sites you will find far more useful and helpful.
Previously suggested:

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Check out http://www.scarleteen.com/

Go down to the bottom of the page and type BDSM into the search box - you'll get some information from that point on. Scarleteen is a well known and well respected site that obviously caters to a younger population, and most importantly offers a sex positive outlook.

And from another Dwellar:

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I also love Scarleteen, and found this gem there recently. Although it does not pertain exclusively to D/s interactions, it is absolutely good advice nonetheless. Good for you to follow and good for you to watch others follow, in fact, moreso the latter than the former.

Driver's Ed for the Sexual Superhighway: Navigating Consent

We're a friendly bunch here, but BDSM is not our area of expertise, just a previous discussion.

Good luck, espeically if this is your first foray,
Sundae.

Sperlock · 12-31-2011, 10:23 AM

You may also check out fetlife.com

BigV · 12-31-2011, 11:15 AM

Hello subcurious,

Welcome to the cellar! What kinds of questions do you have? I'd be happy to talk about this subject with you.

BrianR · 12-31-2011, 11:26 AM

Me too. I have many years of involvement in the leather scene, although I no longer do so.

maineiac04631 · 12-31-2011, 04:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sperlock

You may also check out fetlife.com

I second this advice.

Gravdigr · 12-31-2011, 04:16 PM

Question #1: Do you own a spatula?

Spexxvet · 01-04-2012, 12:40 PM

Question #2: GET DOWN ON YOUR KNEES, BITCH!

BigV · 01-04-2012, 12:43 PM

so, SO not the first two questions.

Spexxvet · 01-04-2012, 12:49 PM

I asked my friend, a masochist, why she stayed with her sadistic husband. "Beats me", she replied.

And that's when I fainted.

BigV · 01-04-2012, 01:44 PM

very LOL.

what did the masochist say to the sadist?

"beat me, beat me"

then the sadist said

"no"

ZenGum · 01-05-2012, 07:18 PM

A submissive lesbian named Kroom,
took a masochistic homosexual to her room
where they argued a lot
about who would do what
and how, and with which, and to whom.

DucksNuts · 01-06-2012, 05:20 AM

Bugger they left, a few of you could have helped and I learn soooo much more about you guys when this kind of thing comes along.

BigV · 01-06-2012, 11:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DucksNuts

Bugger they left, a few of you could have helped and I learn soooo much more about you guys when this kind of thing comes along.

so.

You're curious too? What questions are on your mind, Ducks?

Gravdigr · 01-07-2012, 02:46 AM

Please tell us you have a spatula.

12-31-2011, 10:23 AM	#3
Sperlock Elite Elitist Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: Reno, NV Posts: 322	You may also check out fetlife.com __________________ Every oak tree started out as a couple of nuts who stood their ground. - Anonymous http://informationthreshold.blogspot.com, http://spiritualthreshold.blogspot.com

12-31-2011, 11:15 AM	#4
BigV Goon Squad Leader Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Seattle Posts: 27,063	Hello subcurious, Welcome to the cellar! What kinds of questions do you have? I'd be happy to talk about this subject with you. __________________ Be Just and Fear Not.

12-31-2011, 11:26 AM	#5
BrianR Cleverly disguised as a responsible adult Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Dallas, TX Posts: 3,338	Me too. I have many years of involvement in the leather scene, although I no longer do so. __________________ Never be afraid to tell the world who you are. -- Anonymous

12-31-2011, 04:16 PM	#7
Gravdigr The Un-Tuckian Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: South Central...KY that is Posts: 39,517	Question #1: Do you own a spatula? __________________ These statements have not been evaluated by the FDA, EPA, FBI, DEA, CDC, or FDIC. These statements are not intended to diagnose, cause, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. If you feel you have been harmed/offended by, or, disagree with any of the above statements or images, please feel free to fuck right off.

01-04-2012, 12:40 PM	#8
Spexxvet Makes some feel uncomfortable Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 10,346	Question #2: GET DOWN ON YOUR KNEES, BITCH! __________________ "I'm certainly free, nay compelled, to spread the gospel of Spex. " - xoxoxoBruce

12-31-2011, 02:00 AM	#1
subcurious Guest Posts: n/a	A little lost i thought this was a site where a sub could explore and maybe ask questions... but i did not see anywhere i could do that?

01-04-2012, 12:43 PM	#9
BigV Goon Squad Leader Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Seattle Posts: 27,063	so, SO not the first two questions. __________________ Be Just and Fear Not.

01-04-2012, 12:49 PM	#10
Spexxvet Makes some feel uncomfortable Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 10,346	I asked my friend, a masochist, why she stayed with her sadistic husband. "Beats me", she replied. And that's when I fainted. __________________ "I'm certainly free, nay compelled, to spread the gospel of Spex. " - xoxoxoBruce

01-04-2012, 01:44 PM	#11
BigV Goon Squad Leader Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Seattle Posts: 27,063	very LOL. what did the masochist say to the sadist? "beat me, beat me" then the sadist said "no" __________________ Be Just and Fear Not.

01-05-2012, 07:18 PM	#12
ZenGum Doctor Wtf Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Badelaide, Baustralia Posts: 12,861	A submissive lesbian named Kroom, took a masochistic homosexual to her room where they argued a lot about who would do what and how, and with which, and to whom. __________________ Shut up and hug. MoreThanPretty, Nov 5, 2008. Just because I'm nominally polite, does not make me a pussy. Sundae Girl.

01-06-2012, 05:20 AM	#13
DucksNuts Bitchy Little Brat Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Queensland, Australia Posts: 5,067	Bugger they left, a few of you could have helped and I learn soooo much more about you guys when this kind of thing comes along.

01-07-2012, 02:46 AM	#15
Gravdigr The Un-Tuckian Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: South Central...KY that is Posts: 39,517	Please tell us you have a spatula. __________________ These statements have not been evaluated by the FDA, EPA, FBI, DEA, CDC, or FDIC. These statements are not intended to diagnose, cause, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. If you feel you have been harmed/offended by, or, disagree with any of the above statements or images, please feel free to fuck right off.

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