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Old 07-10-2005, 05:56 PM   #346
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Speaking of spouses...Dakota and I just got married last night.
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Old 07-10-2005, 05:56 PM   #347
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Congrats to both of you!
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Old 07-10-2005, 08:22 PM   #348
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Speaking of spouses...Dakota and I just got married last night.
WOW! CONGRATULATIONS!
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Old 07-10-2005, 08:26 PM   #349
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you just got married last night.. hmmph like it just happened just like that!

Congrats!! What did you do fo a ceremony? do you have pics? tell us more!!
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Old 07-11-2005, 04:37 AM   #350
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and once again Case good luck to you and Dakota. talk to you soon. and congrats again. so.. what are you doing for a honeymoon *wink wink*?
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Old 07-11-2005, 04:40 AM   #351
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uh amen Brianna.. well sans the Bj. but the female equivilent.. as in giving.. urk... bedways is rightways.. the thing that annoys me.. Is that I pay attention to things like that in a partner.. not that I expect that in someone else.. if someone pays attention to me like that (like knowing I like my coffee cup 1/2 full.. so it doesn't get cold!) then.. wow... heh. I do that for people.. rarely anymore.. but... I do...if someone ever figures out my basic quirks I swear I'll marry them. and wow.. that's such a complicated issue.. what ever happened to the 'annoying habits' thread?
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Old 07-11-2005, 09:16 PM   #352
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Hey, Sycamore, you're a very cool dude, know that?
Thanks, hon.
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Old 07-12-2005, 11:14 AM   #353
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Thanks for the congrats! We are pretty broke right now, so the ceremony was very simple and nice. only our parents, my brother and my best friend showed up, plus our kids were there, but other than that it was very small. We had it at night with only candle light and basically just told each other what we felt about each other and we were married. His dad officiated. My flowers were those which I picked in the yard. My dress was one my mom purchased for me. I think the total cost of this wedding was about 150.00, including the dress, dinner for all of us and the cost of the marriage license. But, you know, I feel really good about it. I will post pictures as soon as I have them...

Anyway, back to our regularly scheduled sex thread!
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Old 07-12-2005, 01:15 PM   #354
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I love hearing about people who did it THEIR way. What matters is the commitment, not the show. Congrats!! On topic: sex any different now that it's 'official' ? I grew up going to church and getting bombarded with "sex before marriage was naughty, and getting pregnant was horrible messages". After I got married, I felt a little free-er or something, it's hard to explain. It did take me awhile though to feel completely relaxed...I think that though was because I was always taught (again, in church I think) that those who died before you were watching over you. I really didn't need my dad (and everyone else...) watching me have sex. Every once in awhile I still get the heebie-jeebies over that one. I will NEVER tell my daughter that.
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Old 07-12-2005, 02:24 PM   #355
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good.. the whole church+sex thing has always creeped me out, which is why I am glad I was raised without religion (although some seeped in) it just seems that therein lies most of the problem. If you make people feel guilty about something that is so completely natural you end up with rapists and psychokillers as well as a great deal of people with some seriously unhealthy mindsets. (one of my ex girlfriends did the whole phonesex thing (not my thing, but I guess it's alright for other people) and some of the calls I listened in on as well as some of the things she told me about were very very.. I dunno words can't express (or I can't express rather) just how fucked up some people can become due to (in my opinion) sexual repression.. not that I really advocate free dope and fucking in the streets... but... ya know being animals and all.. a good deal of society is based on a societal construct that is 'unnatural').. okay enough with the paranthetical quotation... I'm rambling anyway.. yeah brain mechanincs
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Old 07-12-2005, 11:30 PM   #356
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I used to have a neibor that was babtist preacher , he and his wife split up , i found out later this freak would be up at the pulpit giveing a sermen with his pants and under wear around his knees and he was ,, well ,,,, lets just say he was "takeing hermin to the circus"
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Old 07-13-2005, 01:21 AM   #357
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Second Cumming of Christ?

(I could say it because I'm pagan and don't believe in Hell.)
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Old 07-13-2005, 06:33 AM   #358
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Cowhead, you're dead right. The more repressed the person is the freakier he/she is about sex. Oh, and, um, most men are secret freaks no matter what. No offense.
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Old 07-13-2005, 11:18 AM   #359
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heh, Brianna.. most people regardless of gender are 'freaks' given the opportunity.. atleast that's what I've come to find out.. or atleast people I've encountered (for lack of a better word) the thing is that if you allow/encourage someone to let go of the whole inhibition (sp?) thing.. (apparently I'm good at that...) sex gets a little weird... damn there's more I wanted to say but I have to head to work... back later

and as such.. no offense taken
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Old 07-13-2005, 02:25 PM   #360
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NEW QUESTION: Does anyone else here think they may never have sex again??? It's been a long, loveless spell here in briannaLand. Sometimes I think the last time I had sex was the last time forever. It's a drag. I'm seriously annoyed. *sigh* oh, to be 19 and so carefree again..!

(wistful, wistful...)
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