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Old 02-22-2013, 06:29 PM   #1
anonymous
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I gave notice today.

Sad but feeling a million times lighter.

Haven't told the sprogs, need to coordinate our story
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Old 02-22-2013, 06:32 PM   #2
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Good for you anon. I wish you well on the next phase of your journey. xxx
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Old 02-22-2013, 06:53 PM   #3
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Do your best.
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Old 02-23-2013, 07:46 AM   #4
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Good luck. I wish you the best in the next phase.
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Old 02-23-2013, 07:46 AM   #5
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I guess it's time to sweep up all those crushed eggshells.
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Old 02-23-2013, 07:47 AM   #6
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All the best as you move forward.
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Old 02-23-2013, 08:16 AM   #7
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Just remember, there's a fuckton of people around the world, linked by this board who wish you the best in this.

*hugs*

best foot forward m'dear.
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Old 02-23-2013, 08:20 AM   #8
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^wss^

Plus, change is scary but it's almost always GOOD once you get into the routine of it.

Take that huge leap into the absurd and find out what and who you are. It will be good. See? You already feel a million times better! and we ARE here for you. Hugs.
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Old 02-23-2013, 08:34 AM   #9
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Well done!
A brave move - and that you're already feeling better is a sign that this was a good move for you!
Sent by thought transference
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Old 02-23-2013, 02:01 PM   #10
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There comes a time when it's less painful to rip the band-aid (plaster) off, and be done with it. It may be a little storm tossed for awhile, but it gets better... to the point you'll be wondering why you waited so long.

Of course that answer is the kids, which you love the mostest, but the time comes when it's best for them too.

Happy trails, blue skies, and bountiful buttercups.
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Old 02-23-2013, 07:42 PM   #11
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Don't give up. Of course, giving notice is itself not giving up, it's fighting for your life, as you should. You're doing the right thing. You're taking action to make your life better, the lives of your sprogs better too.

Hang in there man. Here for you man.
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