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Old 06-21-2006, 02:32 AM   #886
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Yikes! Better luck next time, man.
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Old 06-21-2006, 03:16 AM   #887
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oh it's all good. i don't feel any guilt or anything. if i fully disclosed upfront, in the middle, and from every other angle that i couldn't possibly pull off a real relationship.. and she still kept coming back... that is her issue then, not mine.

(i guess that makes 3 who think i'm slime )
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Old 06-21-2006, 03:33 AM   #888
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I don't think you're slime in the least bit, but it sounds like you kinda knew you were flirting with disaster from the get-go! Geejus, be careful.
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Old 06-21-2006, 03:51 AM   #889
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disaster? hell yeah. she was a nut. but phe-effin-nominal in bed. probably in the top 5 ever. so when it comes right down to it... crazyschmazy.
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Old 06-21-2006, 08:06 AM   #890
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Why are all the crazy ones (females as well as males) always so good in bed? Is it some sort of evolutionary trick? I've noticed that the alcoholic, drug addicted, bi-polar nut cases were usually very attractive people (well, until their various addictions came to collect) and I'd have lots of chemistry with them. Electric! You go to bed with them, nearly die of what they do to you and THEN you find out that they are completely insane. Is that how insanity manages to pass along it's genes? Thru packaging and pheremones?
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Old 06-21-2006, 08:29 AM   #891
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You have a thesis topic there, Bri.
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Old 06-21-2006, 09:33 AM   #892
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Why are all the crazy ones (females as well as males) always so good in bed? Is it some sort of evolutionary trick? I've noticed that the alcoholic, drug addicted, bi-polar nut cases were usually very attractive people (well, until their various addictions came to collect) and I'd have lots of chemistry with them. Electric! You go to bed with them, nearly die of what they do to you and THEN you find out that they are completely insane. Is that how insanity manages to pass along it's genes? Thru packaging and pheremones?

Rick James




Superfreak

She's a very kinky girl
The kind you don't take home to mother
She will never let your spirits down
Once you get her off the street, ow girl

She likes the boys in the band
She says that I'm her all-time favorite
When I make my move to her room it's the right time
She's never hard to please

{Refrain}
That girl is pretty wild now
The girl's a super freak
The kind of girl you read about
In new-wave magazine
That girl is pretty kinky
The girl's a super freak
I really love to taste her
Every time we meet
She's all right, she's all right
That girl's all right with me, yeah
She's a super freak, super freak
She's super-freaky, yow

Super freak, super freak

She's a very special girl
The kind of girl you want to know
>From her head down to her toenails
Down to her feet, yeah
And she'll wait for me at backstage with her girlfriends
In a limousine
Going back in Chinatown

Three's not a crowd to her, she says
"Room 714, I'll be waiting"
When I get there she's got incense, wine and candles
It's such a freaky scene

{Refrain}

{Bridge}

Temptations sing!
Ohhhhh
Super freak, super freak
That girl's a super freak
Ohhhhh

She's a very kinky girl
The kind you don't take home to mother
She will never let your spirits down
Once you get her off the street, ow girl

Blow, Danny!

The prosecution rests its case.
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Old 06-21-2006, 09:42 AM   #893
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Why are all the crazy ones (females as well as males) always so good in bed? Is it some sort of evolutionary trick? I've noticed that the alcoholic, drug addicted, bi-polar nut cases were usually very attractive people (well, until their various addictions came to collect) and I'd have lots of chemistry with them. Electric! You go to bed with them, nearly die of what they do to you and THEN you find out that they are completely insane. Is that how insanity manages to pass along it's genes? Thru packaging and pheremones?
We cannot reveal our insanity right off the bat or we would never get any of the goods. What if you replaced them they those and crazy with genius(es) and brilliant. It's all about perspective.
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Old 06-21-2006, 09:52 AM   #894
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oh it's all good. i don't feel any guilt or anything. if i fully disclosed upfront, in the middle, and from every other angle that i couldn't possibly pull off a real relationship.. and she still kept coming back... that is her issue then, not mine.
The words "I don't want to be in a relationship, but I'll be happy to continue to have sex" are to women like dog whistles are to humans.

We just don't hear them.
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Old 06-21-2006, 10:08 AM   #895
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hmmm. not any of the women i used to see pre-enslavement.

so that must be the difference between women in a college town and women who reside in the real world.
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Old 06-21-2006, 10:10 AM   #896
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Even they thought they could change your mind, they just didn't work as hard at it.
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Old 06-21-2006, 10:43 AM   #897
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I had a couple of periods in my life where I was not interested in anything other than a good time..in bed and out. 'Tis funny, in my experience whenever I told a man I didn't want a relationship but just wanted to date and they should not expect exclusivity...they nearly always decided that a relationship was exactly what they DID want. Possessiveness? Jealousy? I don't know, but keeping them at arms length (omg do NOT say "I love you" to me) was difficult.

Aren't crazy people missing some of the more common inhibitions? Alcohol and drugs lessen them as well, giving freedom to be sexually adventurous in bed. Of course, the addictions can catch up to them and they lose the ability to perform at all.
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Old 06-21-2006, 02:29 PM   #898
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The words "I don't want to be in a relationship, but I'll be happy to continue to have sex" are to women like dog whistles are to humans.

We just don't hear them.

Actually, the last relationship I was in, he said it. We drifted apart a couple of times, then he decided that he couldn't live without me and that I was what he really wanted. By that time, I was doubting.....now I am in a different state
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Old 06-21-2006, 03:13 PM   #899
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Different state geographically or emotionally?
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Old 06-21-2006, 03:32 PM   #900
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Aren't crazy people missing some of the more common inhibitions? Alcohol and drugs lessen them as well, giving freedom to be sexually adventurous in bed. Of course, the addictions can catch up to them and they lose the ability to perform at all.

I think you hit the nail on the head.
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