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Old 03-11-2010, 11:27 AM   #1
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Suicidal friend

How to save a friend you suspect might be considering suicide.
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Old 03-11-2010, 12:06 PM   #2
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Any particular reason you're choosing to post this now, and anonymously?
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Old 03-11-2010, 03:31 PM   #3
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For anyone who's feeling down, it's nice to remember that there's people who care. Lots of people have been down, this past winter. To better days!
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Old 03-11-2010, 03:52 PM   #4
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Anon is correct, wolfey. The randomness of this thread might be questionable, but it may be helpful to some.
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Old 03-11-2010, 04:26 PM   #5
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I suspect that wolf may know who posted it, and is concerned. Assuming it is a regular dwellar, and assuming that the typical 'friend' misdirection, concern would be a logical response.

that said...If anyone is contemplating suicide, i would like to recommend the alternative: Go Hobo.
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Old 03-11-2010, 04:38 PM   #6
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Also, wolf is a mental health professional.
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Old 03-11-2010, 04:48 PM   #7
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I suspect that wolf may know who posted it, and is concerned. Assuming it is a regular dwellar, and assuming that the typical 'friend' misdirection, concern would be a logical response.
On the other hand, it may be legit, and anonymous might be just be a clever username.

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that said...If anyone is contemplating suicide, i would like to recommend the alternative: Go Hobo.
And my reccommendation: Just Don't. I like Ozzy's music too, but suicide is never the solution.
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Old 03-11-2010, 05:01 PM   #8
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Yes. There are people who care. Please, if you are feeling suicidal, reach out for help. From your friends, your family, a suicide helpline. Please.
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Old 03-11-2010, 05:14 PM   #9
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@Datalyss: 'Anonymous' is a community use username. Any of us can log onto the anon account and post with it.
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Old 03-11-2010, 05:22 PM   #10
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@Datalyss: 'Anonymous' is a community use username. Any of us can log onto the anon account and post with it.
That doesn't seem like a good idea to me.
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Old 03-11-2010, 05:35 PM   #11
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Why not?
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Old 03-11-2010, 08:13 PM   #12
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We're grown ups here, we don't abuse such things.
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Old 03-11-2010, 08:53 PM   #13
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Why not?
Any spammer could sign on as anonymous, and go wild.
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Old 03-11-2010, 09:00 PM   #14
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nope, they couldn't.
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Old 03-11-2010, 09:35 PM   #15
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Focus on the real issue, Datalyss. Start your on thread if you wat to discuss why certain things are done the way they are here.

It has been a terribly difficult year for me, thoughts come and go. Some good some bad. Personally I try to think outside myself and about what my loved ones would go through if I did something like that. I talk to them. I keep in touch. I realize how much I am wanted and needed. . . on I go. Sometimes for me sometimes for them. The pendulum swings.
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