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View Poll Results: What shows greater intimacy?
I'm a woman and oral sex is more intimate 1 8.33%
I'm a woman and genital sex is more intimate 3 25.00%
I'm a man and oral sex is more intimate 3 25.00%
I'm a man and genital sex is more intimate 5 41.67%
Other: Write in below 0 0%
Voters: 12. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 11-10-2010, 10:27 PM   #1
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Relatively Intimate

Here's a question for the dwellars about sexual intimacy. Do you consider oral sex more or less intimate than genital sex?

There is the old saying "eating ain't cheating" but this isn't about cheating per se, but about whether you feel there is a deeper connection, between partners, with one act or another.

So here's an anonymous poll.
(Sorry Shel, it's not an anonymous pole)
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Old 11-11-2010, 12:25 AM   #2
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Giving or receiving?
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Old 11-11-2010, 03:42 AM   #3
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More intimate.
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Old 11-11-2010, 03:56 AM   #4
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Like Bruce says - giving or receiving?
To me, giving a blowjob is far less intimate than sex.
Receiving... more. Not as much of a difference as giving, but certainly more.
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Old 11-11-2010, 07:41 AM   #5
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OK Mod, can you open up the poll so I can change the options to reflect giving or receiving?
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Old 11-11-2010, 08:48 AM   #6
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I don't think so, maybe UT can?
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Old 11-11-2010, 11:06 AM   #7
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Old 11-11-2010, 11:10 AM   #8
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I was thinking this was going to be about kissing cousins....
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Old 11-11-2010, 11:52 AM   #9
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Can't open, can edit, let me know what the new options should be?
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Old 11-11-2010, 12:45 PM   #10
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Can't open, can edit, let me know what the new options should be?
- Do you like receiving oral sex (m to f)?
- Are you home right now?
- What is your address?

Yes I know it doesn't work as a poll. I'm daydreaming.
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Old 11-11-2010, 12:53 PM   #11
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Yes I know it doesn't work as a poll.
might work for few poles though!
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Old 11-11-2010, 01:38 PM   #12
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Can't open, can edit, let me know what the new options should be?
Thought we should change to reflect:
if female, is giving oral more intimate vs
if female, is receiving oral more intimate
if male, is giving oral more intimate
if male, is receiving oral more intimate

if female, is having genital more intimate
if male, is having genital more intimate
other

Not sure what this might prove but ...
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Old 11-11-2010, 02:23 PM   #13
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aw crap well we would have to zero out the votes
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Old 11-11-2010, 02:27 PM   #14
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How about a new and improved thread linked here.
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Old 11-11-2010, 03:04 PM   #15
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Sounds good.
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