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Originally Posted by bmwmcaw

Alcoholism, drug abuse, sexual taboos, and all kinds of physical and mental abuse have been around for thousands of years.

Women’s sexuality has been more controlled over the millenniums for darn good reasons. Women own sex. Women control sex. Sex doesn’t occur without the expressed consent of women.

How many women do you see at clubs, bars, coffee houses, and buying drinks for men to pick them up for sex? How many women do you see offering to fix this or carry that to gain the favor of men? I think you get my point or should and PLEASE spare me the once in a blue moon comparisons.

Pressure for sex is pressure but NO means NO!

Sexual loyalty for is men the most important attribute they look for in women. For any man to deny this turns there back on 10s of thousands of years of social development and again the obvious.

Men do not want to father another mans child brought about through infidelity. The statistic here are astounding. If memory serves me right the Kinsley report puts children fathered by non-spouses/boyfriend at 30%. 3 or of 10 women cheated on there husband or boyfriend and never told them that the pregnancy was not his seed.

There is no double standard and I can’t repeat this enough. Men can go months without sex or opportunity for sex and have to work hard to obtain it. Women need only point there finger. You put a few drinks in a man and he will stick his Johnson in a hole in the wall.

Women who claim to want sex for sex sake are incredulous. Ask any married man what happens to all that sex they used to have before they got married. Women have sex for entirely different reason then men. Sex for women is a tool. They use it to obtain advantages. To obtain relationships that brings to them advantages. Most men have sex for pure pleasure.

Girls don’t claim that you cut back or even stop because it gets boring. There are only so many ways a cake can bake. It’s really because you’ve reach the limits of advantage and now have no reason other than maintenance to engage in sex.

I’ve talk to many women and the vast majority doesn’t even know what an orgasm is. Again I think its was the Kinsley report or even surveys in Cosmo that put females who claim to have and orgasm at only 20%. What they describe is a light headed feeling (Hyperventilating.)

Men have out of body experiences at 100%. Men, including myself, describe it as similar to drug use like heroin or cocaine (both I’ve never used). Sexual addiction in men is a real thing. I think every woman suffers from some penis envy. Can you image what the pickup routine at bars would be if women got as much enjoyment from sex as men? We would probably be still living in caves because we wouldn’t be able to get out from under the bears skins.:p

The end of our society will comes when the female Viagra comes out. It will be great for men for sometime until society breakdown because men and women stop going to work.
:D

Is this April Fool's day? This has to be April Fool's day...
"Sexual addiction in men is a real thing." I have researched sexual addiction and none of the information dismiss that women can have this problem too. In fact I was researching it for a female friend who thought that she was a sexual addict...and guess what? she is.

"Sex doesn’t occur without the expressed consent of women."
So i'm guessing you think that rape is just an invention of women? Or yes we want men to painfully force themselves inside us, sometimes hold us captive for a significant amount of time and then kill us. What about the young girls who are raped...they chose that? When they are too young to even understand what sex is???

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Using Uniform Crime Report data for 1994 and 1995, the Bureau of Justice Statistics found that of rape victims who reported the offense to law enforcement, about 40% were under the age of 18, and 15% were younger than 12.4

I am deeply sorry for whichever women might have come in contact with you, and even more so for those who made the mistake of sleeping with you. That must have been extremely uncomfortable for them. :(

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Originally Posted by bmwmcaw

I think every woman suffers from some penis envy.

No, thanks...I don't know how you guys walk around with those things. Now, if you had a jar of peanuts I'd be pretty jealous.

OMG - I just thought of something - please don't reproduce

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Originally Posted by bmwmcaw

Men have out of body experiences at 100%. Men, including myself, describe it as similar to drug use like heroin or cocaine (both I’ve never used).

I'm sorry, that's not clear enough. You could be talking about masturbation, or you might not be.

Are you, or are you not, a virgin? This is an important clarification of the character behind your arguments.

"You put a few drinks in a man and he will stick his Johnson in a hole in the wall."

Well, this person is crazy, but he does have a way of turning a phrase.

OK, guys: how many of you have put your dick through a hole in a wall, and if so did you know what was on the other side?

bmwmcaw reminds me of that Canadian dude who got banned a while back

I'm surprised anyone is still responding to this twerp.

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Originally Posted by Aliantha

I'm surprised anyone is still responding to this twerp.

He's a skilled troll. That's why he reminds me of that Canadian guy who got banned. People couldn't resist replying.

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Originally Posted by Aliantha

I'm surprised anyone is still responding to this twerp.

Because this

:brikwall:

is our 2nd most favorite activity.

Well foot, I'm pretty sure he's not that Canadian guy because I've had similar discussions with him about this sort of thing and his views do not concur with bmw's. I suppose he could be just trying to yank people's chains though, in which case, he's doing a good job of it. Again though, I don't think it's him.

I don't think it's him, just that there is a similarity in keeping people hooked into his crap, and his being willing to keep it up after most people would have said yeah whatever

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Originally Posted by joelnwil

Over here it's called a Glory Hole, and is used by gay men in toilets. They know what is on the other side :)

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Originally Posted by Aliantha

I'm surprised anyone is still responding to this twerp.

Personally I'm not responding to him, but I do still find the thread interesting. I don't think I realised what a liberal crowd I socialise/ work with. It's always worth hearing another opinion, even if it's one I vehemently disagree with.

In fact 9th Engineer, I'd like to hear more from you on this subject. I doubt we'll agree, but you don't seem to be making sweeping generalisations. And of course it's a relief to read posts that don't ignore the rules of grammar.

Lot of complaint but little added insights.

No real refutation, just insults.

Sundae Girl, rapes was addressed in prior posts.

That’s the rub on this or other message boards. Poster fail to carry on a thought or point. A discussion is based on compounded information not regurgitation.

Women can become sexually addicted as well as have all the traits of male sexuality, but they are an EXTREME minority.

Why not save your false assumptions and useless reprints of my quotes without adding dime-one to the topic. You “poster” claim the high ground yet talk nothing but trash.
I’m this I’m that, spare me the juvenile tit-4-tat.

Got something to add, add it.

Take issue with the point, read the post and then take it on.

I am ABSOULTLY not impress with name calling and self-serving disparaging comments employed to evade the topic.

No evasion here. I just disagree with your "opinions" and I continue to do so. Your opinions are faulty, illogical and antiquated. And that is nothing more than my opinion. I no longer feel the need nor point in arguing about it. Its like trying to convice someone in the 13th century that, indeed, the world is round.
Oh and by the way - it is.

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Originally Posted by yesman065

Women’s sexuality has been more controlled over the millenniums for darn good reasons. Women own sex. Women control sex. Sex doesn’t occur without the expressed consent of women.
And if my dick isn't hard it ain't happenin either buddy - I'm good, but not that good.
One word..Viagra.
How many women do you see at clubs, bars, coffee houses, and buying drinks for men to pick them up for sex? How many women do you see offering to fix this or carry that to gain the favor of men? I think you get my point or should and PLEASE spare me the once in a blue moon comparisons. Pressure for sex is pressure but NO means NO!
Sexual loyalty for is men the most important attribute they look for in women.
Gee and every woman wants a guy coming home smelling like a hooker??? What planet are you from?

GOT YOU!!!

So if the roles where reversed then the man being "picked up" would be a slut/whore. I know what planet I'm on do you know that you just craped-out (gambling term.)

Men do not want to father another mans child brought about through infidelity.
The statistic hers are astounding. If memory serves me right the Kinsley report puts children fathered by non-spouses/boyfriend at 30%. 3 or of 10 women cheated on there husband or boyfriend and never told them that the pregnancy was not his seed.
And How many men fathered children out of wedlock without sharing the glorious news with their spouses???

Inappropriate and false comparsion. Pregnacy from consentual sex is not the same as infidelity.

There is no double standard and I can’t repeat this enough. Men can go months without sex or opportunity for sex and have to work hard to obtain it.
You maybe, not me - even if its Susie thumb and her four sisters

To each his own.

Women need only point there finger. You put a few drinks in a man and he will stick his Johnson in a hole in the wall.
I can honestly say that my Johnson has never been put into a hole in a wall
Let’s see you with half a 5th of Jack Daniels in you and a skanky bitch with her legs open and we'll see.

Women who claim to want sex for sex sake are incredulous. Ask any married man what happens to all that sex they used to have before they got married. Women have sex for entirely different reason then men. Sex for women is a tool. They use it to obtain advantages. To obtain relationships that brings to them advantages. Most men have sex for pure pleasure.
Perhaps some women are not interested in the 30 second sex you are offering them. That is more frustrating to them then not getting any at all, is less than satisfying and creates a lot of pent up frustration. Furthermore,m Perhaps women would be more inclined to indulge in sex if they didn't have to work all day as hard or harder than their male counterparts for the same pay. Then go home and be expected top run the house, do laundry, taxi children, cook meals, and so on while you sit on your lazy ass drinkin a beer. Hmmm.
Women are “over worked" point is exaggerated. Guess what men work long hours too and do lots a work around the house. Have sex to short and its not enough, have sex to long and its to much and you get complaints. Do you hear many men complaining about time and frequency? Good luck with your future or present Goldie Locks. Bottom-line is I stand by what I posted.

Girls don’t claim that you cut back or even stop because it gets boring. There are only so many ways a cake can bake. It’s really because you’ve reach the limits of advantage and now have no reason other than maintenance to engage in sex.
You need a new cookbook dude.

Off topic and useless.

I’ve talk to many women and the vast majority doesn’t even know what an orgasm is. Again I think its was the Kinsley report or even surveys in Cosmo that put females who claim to have and orgasm at only 20%. What they describe is a light headed feeling (Hyperventilating.)
Puhlease - my girl gets one every time and I'll pass out trying to get her there if need be. Otherwise toys fingers, tongue ect. will suffice.

What did Elaine Tell Jerry, FAKE<> FAKE <>FAKE. Ya, your all that until you see her with another "dude" and then come and do your bragging.
Men have out of body experiences at 100%. Men, including myself, describe it as similar to drug use like heroin or cocaine (both I’ve never used). Sexual addiction in men is a real thing. I think every woman suffers from some penis envy. Can you image what the pick routine at bars would be in women got as much enjoyment from sex as men?
Wrong again - I have had both mind-blowing orgasms and relatively mild ones. In fact I have satisfied my girl without getting or needing to get one.

That’s too bad I think self-delusion is the worst possible thing a person can do to themselves.

I just cannot understand your antiquated logic and feel that you are doing way too much reading and not enough acting on the subject. Have you really had a committed sexual relationship?? Cuz from what you say it sure doesn't sound it and you seem to be rather bitter about the whole subject - perhaps you are sexually frustrated??

Based on your hollow and meandering pointless retorts I would say your "experiences” are more wishful and fantasy based. You'll see.