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I am in my 30s. I feel love and am in love with my significant other.
Which one do I pick when I turn 40 and still feel the same way? ;-)

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Originally Posted by mac_tire_daingean (Post 444541)

Which one do I pick when I turn 40 and still feel the same way? ;-)

That's why I haven't voted.

I'm in my 30's and have only been married for a year and a half.

I want to say that we aren't in love anymore, but we make everyone else sick to their stomachs when they have to watch us do anything together. So yea, on the behalf of all my friends who I have absolutely disgusted with our closeness, I will have to answer definitely in love. The 30's edition.
:D

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Originally Posted by Sundae Girl (Post 444398)

I'm pretty sure I could have sex tomorrow, but one of the men I don't find sexually attractive and the other would be quite dangerous in a moth to the flame way.

Why I don't "date." Am I cutting myself short? I don't thinks so but I wonder at times.

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Originally Posted by Sundae Girl (Post 444398)

I actually contacted a speed dating agency yesterday

good luck with that! I envy your courage.

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Originally Posted by Shawnee123 (Post 444415)

The whole conventional concept of "dating" scares the bejeezus out of me. The idea of setting up a time, seeing how it goes...though I dated my ass off ;) in younger days, I just don't see me doing it now. Like shopping for a guy. I always think something will grow out of a friendship, or will just happen. It's not a healthy attitude, and will probably keep me alone for some time...but still I tell guys "I'm sorry, I don't date."

Luckily, I'm quite comfortable with my own company. Sad, eh?

I think it is my attitude to a T and comfortable with my own company thus this flawed poll.

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Originally Posted by freshnesschronic (Post 444476)

there's not enough options :(

well sorry. What say you then? What would your option have been?

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Originally Posted by SteveDallas (Post 444499)

Idon't like wine much at all.. so comparing love to wine has potentially troublesome implications for me. (At least if I'm wanting to make a positive comparison. )

Well I havn't ever had a properly aged bottle of wine yet so maybe I should have chosen a better metaphor :)

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Originally Posted by mac_tire_daingean (Post 444541)

I am in my 30s. I feel love and am in love with my significant other.
Which one do I pick when I turn 40 and still feel the same way? ;-)

Im making this a double response to glatt too.

@ mac tire. same as what? It's good wine or goat cheese on crackers?
I mean some people like goat cheese. It's steady and never changes. ;)

(edit)
Or is it unrequited and or untried. I have at least one of those. :)

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Originally Posted by Cicero (Post 444544)

I'm in my 30's and have only been married for a year and a half.

I will have to answer definitely in love. The 30's edition.
:D

woo hoo chock one more up for luv :D

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Originally Posted by skysidhe (Post 444546)

@ mac tire. same as what? It's good wine or goat cheese on crackers?
I mean some people like goat cheese. It's steady and never changes. ;)

Same as now only 40s instead of 30s "I feel love and am in love with my significant other." :)

mmmmmm...goat cheese and crackers. I'll have to check with Case and see if we can get some of that soon. I mean, can we both be in love with our significant other and like goat cheese and crackers, is it allowed? :D

I picked goat cheese and crackers. I was assuming that it was a good thing. We eat well.
:)
Do you know what we really like? We like goat-cheese salmon patties. Those are so awesome! So yea, mac. Sky may not approve, but I do. Carry on with your in-love selves, and have as much of the goat-cheese goodness you want.

Goat cheese...not blue cheese. As long as we can make that distinction, I think it will be okay.

In the 40s its sort of a lovely platter of sausages, assorted cheeses and marinated vegetables with good olive oil and crusty bread.

:yum:
forget the love, I just want that platter!

Sort of like the Seinfeld where George finds that pastrami is the most sensual of the smoke cured meats...now if he just adds tv....

Just starting out and being cautious. Sure having fun though.

It isn't so thoughtful or scientific so it failed in execution so I am thankful for the patience and willingness to contribute.

About me:

I have great loving friendships. The friends I have are loving, supportive and gracious. I know there are people here like that as well.

I am glad for the people that are still in love. My love is a warm mellow sunset. It's deep and enduring and I am very fortunate to meet easy going people. I guess that's what I am. I don't DEMAND love or it's trappings. Just mutial respect ,courtesy and humor. I have that so I think that's good enough.

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Originally Posted by skysidhe (Post 444740)

My love is a warm mellow sunset.

with a bunny in it:
http://eclectech.co.uk/b3ta/2007-04bunnysunset.jpg

*laughs so hard at lj that she cries*

Where is the choic for:

I am in my 40s. I feel love and am in love with my significant other.

I am in my 50s. I feel love and am in love with my significant other.