That's a good point; if you haven't gotten his CO involved in your custody case, maybe you should?

You should not be denied visitation, that's just wrong.

If the other soldier ran away then how is he not AWOL - call the MPs.
If you are still married and she transported the child across state lines, call the FBI.
If you are divorced and she is blocking your visitation rights, call a cop.
If you are divorced and her name is still on your account, take a 2x4 and smack yourself upside the head with it.

I feel for you Sarge but there's a big chunk missing from this story which is making it difficult to come up with a helpful suggestion.

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Exactly, and this situation should definitely be on their radar. If they aren't involved yet, they should be. A woman emptying your bank account and running off with your kid with another soldier, who is also married, is a big bad no-no behavior in the armed services.

Hey Sarge, you might try this website. Don't know if it'll do what you need, but try it out, see if it works. Supposed to find people on those type social networking sites. Site is http://yoname.com/ Good luck

Thanks for the comments ya'll. If you recall, I have mentioned this situation before & have even posted a photo of my daughter.

The other soldier was M-Day (Title 32) and not subject to UCMJ (He fell under state article 5). He obtained his divorce from his wife, before he mobilized.

That 'splains it. Good luck with that. Hang in there.

Sorry I can't help for real, but I do send you my wishes for the best!

Just use up ALL of your legal resources, first. Once you use up all of those, find more. There are probably non-profits/pro-bono organizations that can help, they just aren't obvious. I would not go this route of "spying" on her, whether or not its just to see your little girl, which I fully understand your longing. Better that you wait for the courts to sort it out. I'm afraid if you go down this sneaky route, and you get caught it will have severe consequences and keep you from seeing the child longer.
Be patient, don't give up. But also be careful about the steps you take.

What MTP said. Your daughter matters to you, so keep trying, but do not put a single toe one inch over the line of the law, otherwise the Ex can and will get some shark of a lawyer who will screw you even more.

Have you pursued custody/visitation? That is your first line of defense in a situation like this.

Sarge, through this thread you're learning.
You don't always get what you want from the Cellar. But if you try sometimes, you might find, you get some damned good advice, and a different way of looking at a problem. What? Oh okay, sometimes you get what you need too...

I know the responses haven't been what you initially requested, but they probably contain things worth following up on. I don't know, they're all written in foreign. All I know is a daughter really needs her Daddy. Forget about just seeing pics of her - you fight til the death to make sure she knows you love her - absent or not.