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Gravdigr 06-20-2015 01:20 PM

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Originally Posted by anonymous (Post 931498)
It's a dive bar that is trying to attract a hipper crowd while not alienating the their main customer base who are cheap beer drinking DWI having, done some time for running over a cop being folks. There's a pool table, and primarily professional drinkers.

Who would willingly take a child to such a place? Why would anyone willingly take a child to a bar? I might understand the bar section of Applebee's, but, not a stand alone bar.

You have to be eighteen to get in a bar here. Hardly ever an issue, though, because no one brings their children to the bar.

Bite the responsibility bullet, and go to Chuck E. Cheese instead.

monster 06-20-2015 01:21 PM

I want to be charitable towards the moms, but I'm finding it hard to come up with anything redeeming about this situation. everyone else said it

sexobon 06-20-2015 02:01 PM

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Originally Posted by anonymous (Post 931511)
... tow kids were left to play pool, ...

Are they any good at it? Were they making money hustling drunks? That would be a game changer.

infinite monkey 06-20-2015 02:22 PM

I don't know. Some couple brought their INFANT baby to see Insidious Ch. 3 today, early showing. The baby behaved better than the whispering couple who seemed to use a lot of words containing the 'ssssss' sound, during their very important discourse. They did stfu after I asked them, nicely, to quit talking.

Really, an infant.

The 3rd installment of this series was good. The first two were so-so. Great jump scares and a decent couple of backstories. It even played on my heartstrings a little.

xoxoxoBruce 06-20-2015 03:25 PM

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Originally Posted by anonymous (Post 931511)
At least one mom was consuming alcohol.

As opposed to being on somebody's back porch with the kids playing in the yard or the kiddie pool, and both of them drinking alcohol... which happens frequently in every town.

infinite monkey 06-20-2015 07:15 PM

And five times is not 40 plus a donkey!

monster 06-20-2015 07:53 PM

I swear I replied again to this thread ten mins ago but.....

At least bars aren't smoky anymore. Well not here, any way. Are they still in other places?


And then it occurred to me that when anon said "at least one mom was drinking alcohol", maybe he meant that as a redeeming factor rather than a criticism? ;) :D

monster 06-20-2015 07:55 PM

(because parenting is really only possible with a little help)

infinite monkey 06-20-2015 08:20 PM

It was meant as a chicken little tactic.

footfootfoot 06-20-2015 10:20 PM

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Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce (Post 931560)
As opposed to being on somebody's back porch with the kids playing in the yard or the kiddie pool, and both of them drinking alcohol... which happens frequently in every town.

Not sure that is a fair comparison. At a bar you can't control what everyone around you is talking about, pawing each other, slurring and staggering, saying inappropriate things and so on. I don't think it's great for kids to be around drunks either at home or abroad. But if the back proch is anything like a dive bar then CPS should probably pay a visit.

footfootfoot 06-20-2015 10:21 PM

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Originally Posted by monster (Post 931573)
(because parenting is really only possible with a little help)

Amen. I need a top up.

xoxoxoBruce 06-21-2015 04:26 AM

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Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce (Post 931560)
As opposed to being on somebody's back porch with the kids playing in the yard or the kiddie pool, and both of them drinking alcohol... which happens frequently in every town.

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Originally Posted by footfootfoot (Post 931583)
Not sure that is a fair comparison. At a bar you can't control what everyone around you is talking about, pawing each other, slurring and staggering, saying inappropriate things and so on. I don't think it's great for kids to be around drunks either at home or abroad. But if the back proch is anything like a dive bar then CPS should probably pay a visit.

I was addressing the fact that one of them was drinking alcohol is neither unusual and likely irrelevant. You are translating drinking alcohol into drunk, which is not a given. You are also throwing in pawing, slurring, and staggering at 7 to 8 PM, which is not a given either. While I think the kids shouldn't be there, everyone seems to be projecting the worst dive bar scenario they can think of.

footfootfoot 06-21-2015 08:44 AM

Ahh. good point.

sexobon 06-21-2015 09:03 AM

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Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce (Post 931592)
... While I think the kids shouldn't be there, everyone seems to be projecting the worst dive bar scenario they can think of.

You mean like since there was bluegrass music, there must've been banjos? :eek:

xoxoxoBruce 06-21-2015 09:45 AM

Not at all, not that banjos is a bad thing.


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