Oh yeah, if anybody actually associated childbirth and sex, nobody would have sex again after the first kid! It's be very bad from a species-survivial standpoint.

Is that what causes the supposed drop-off of sexual activity after the first year or two of marriage?

No.

You strive for brevity, don't you?

no, juju............that would be children.

(snicker)

and you're next.

And that makes you happy?

Striving for brevity or speaking from authority?

misery loving company and all that..........

and yeah! if i'm not getting first year sex, why the hell should you?!?!?

     I thought it was familiarity that caused the drop off in sexual activity... I mean knowing someone well is enough to make you not want to sleep with them... Or maybe I'm just being cynical, again.

Well, hey, *I* wish happiness and good feelings on ALL my friends.

Yeah, I'm sure that's it. I was just trying to be a smartass. :)

well, hey, godblessya, juju....you have a heart at least twice the size of mine.

Not for the creative.

     Not for the creative? Why? Because the creative can find interesting new ways to confuse the spouse enough to not be understood? While coming up with new excuses for the spouse?
     I'm a firm believer that familiarity breeds contempt. A review of the "old days" when marriages lasted suggested that men drank a lot and women took other domestic drugs. Let's not forget, secrataries and mailmen worked great for variety. Not to sound cynical or anything.

you're kidding, right???