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Ciara 01-09-2003 11:20 PM

Internet bill
 
I don't have an internet bill.

99 44/100% pure 01-10-2003 07:26 AM

Oh, Man, More of THIS Shit?
 
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I don't have an internet bill.
Oh, yeah, that's right, her unemployed brother provides her with DSL service, which is why she can afford to spend $100 to buy Chrismas presents for a dog while complaining that she doesn't have enough cash; can a bunch of kind-hearted strangers help her out?

But I'm not getting sucked into this again. I'm more interested in the emotions and responses this thread raised than I am in the proported "plight" of the misbegotten author. I couldn't figure out why this person's use of this site to scam money from people aroused my ire so, particularly when I was a newcomer myself, and had no real relationship with anyone here (except HB).

What I have concluded is that the site really is quite succesful at its mission; to establish a community (nebulous, but a community nonetheless) -- not necessarily of like-minded people, but of people who communicate at a common level of understanding, and enjoy each other's (non-corporeal) company.

There are certain spoken and unspoken groundrules, and I like that. It provides a certain comfort level. When this interloper posted her trash, it was as if someone came into the pleasant tea party I was enjoying, and pissed in the fruit punch.

Not to mention that she was obviously lying, whining, and trying to take advantage of others, three traits I cannot stand. In addition, she was grammatically incorrect, which is tolerable in a friendly exchange, but when cyberbegging, is as bad as a typo on your resume in the 'real world.'

Anyway, I'm going to stick to my guns (that's for you, wolf and slang :) ) and stay away from any further exchange with this (probably fictitious) person.

Ciara 01-10-2003 11:03 AM

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I'm not a fictious person. My brother is unemployed. I am unemployed due to a nervous breakdown. I could care less if you think I am real or not. Just don't read it, or don't reply. I am not scamming anyone. I truly do have problems.

perth 01-10-2003 11:05 AM

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Originally posted by Ciara
... I truly do have problems.
and? i have problems too. can you send me some money?

~james

Ciara 01-10-2003 11:33 AM

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I personally can't, but maybe someone else can. You never know.

perth 01-10-2003 11:35 AM

oh, sorry. i forgot the sarcasm tags.

~james

Ciara 01-10-2003 11:38 AM

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Seriously if you need help, asking for what you need sometimes helps. I asked a psychologist yesterday if he would be willing to take me for $50 less, and he agreed.

Undertoad 01-10-2003 11:47 AM

We are familiar with your skills at asking for things. We are more curious about your persistence when turned down.

Ciara 01-10-2003 11:51 AM

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I don't think I have asked for anything else since that first night. You all keep replying to this post.

Ciara 01-10-2003 11:54 AM

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If you keep asking about my life or have something to say about my life, of course I will show back up. It shows interest.

99 44/100% pure 01-10-2003 12:23 PM

No-one's asking
 
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Originally posted by Ciara
If you keep asking about my life or have something to say about my life, of course I will show back up. It shows interest.
As I noted earlier, I have not the slightest interest in you or your life. What I found interesting was the impact your audacious appearance had on this community -- rather like a ton of fetid refuse being dumped into a pristine pond. That the ripples are still present after nearly three weeks (and two major holidays) merely shows how noxious the refuse was, not how deserving of attention the dumper is.

elSicomoro 01-10-2003 12:50 PM

I have to admit, I read the diary periodically b/c it's like a car wreck...you can't help but look at it.

Ciara 01-10-2003 12:54 PM

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I feel like a car wreck. I'm glad you are amused.

elSicomoro 01-10-2003 01:22 PM

Who said I was amused?

Undertoad 01-10-2003 02:19 PM

At least stop filling in the subject line with a period.

Ciara 01-10-2003 04:14 PM

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slang 01-10-2003 04:17 PM

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That Guy 01-10-2003 04:50 PM

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Originally posted by Ciara
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UT?

elSicomoro 01-10-2003 05:34 PM

£
 
£

wolf 01-10-2003 10:18 PM

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Originally posted by Ciara
I am unemployed due to a nervous breakdown.
There's no such thing as a nervous breakdown.

Ciara 01-10-2003 11:11 PM

No? That's strange because that's what I had.

Ciara 01-10-2003 11:15 PM

Or maybe I should be more correct as you are always trying to catch me on a fumble, or a lie.

Major depression. I was hospitalized for it, and I and they called it a nervous breakdown. But no there is no such thing. However the term nervous breakdown now means just snapping, or just being so depressed that one cannot help him/herself. I know all about it.

So yes, I had a nervous breakdown, or whatever YOU want to call it. On my forms for work it states nervous breakdown. I will go back to work after my mental evaluation.

Bearo 01-10-2003 11:32 PM

Hospitalized huh? well you certainly got back to posting in your dland fast did you bring your computer to the hospital? Although I seem to recall someone saying they couldn't afford healthcare so how did you end up in hospital?? maybe I just don't understand the american health care system. By the way did you mention in your pathetic begging that you have a car, a computer, a digital camera and a diaryland supergold membership? and yes we know most of those are gifts and even po' people need nice things, yet you still need too mooch other peoples money? heh sound like you don't know when to call it quits and cut your losses, or in your case "earnings". People write angry things because your behaviour is disgusting and disgracefu.l

juju 01-11-2003 12:42 AM

She did not want to take our original advice, because that would mean that she would not be a victim anymore! Poooor me!

Ciara 01-11-2003 01:55 AM

Hospitals cannot refuse you when you don't have health insurance. I did not stay overnight. I was in the hospital 6 hours.

Bearo 01-11-2003 07:39 AM

You said you were hospitalized. But being there for mere hours sounds more like a visit :confused:. Funny how you can bend words to your own needs. When you say hospitalized one would think you meant for a strech of days not hours. I think professional victim is an accurate term. It amuses me how many people buy your garbage and feel bad for you.

99 44/100% pure 01-11-2003 09:14 AM

Why am I compelled to keep arguing with this fruitcake?
 
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Originally posted by Ciara
I was in the hospital 6 hours.
SIX HOURS?! That's how long it takes to get a hangnail treated! And that's with health insurance! This only adds to the reasons I'm certain that this woman (person?) is lying from start to finish. If she truly is mentally ill, she needs to add "Delusional thinking" and "Compulsive lying" do her no doubt long list of DSM IV diagnoses.

Disclaimer: Nothing against hospitals and the many fine medical and administrative personnel who work there. It just takes a mighty long time to get through the emergency room process if not mortally wounded. For that, you're in and out in no time.

Bearo 01-11-2003 10:43 AM

"Why am I compelled to keep arguing with this fruitcake?"

Maybe for the amusement? I personally find it intriguing. To sit here and wonder how somone can stay at their computer all day everyday and wait for a reply to her bs. Maybe that's why she is here, maybe she sorely needs human companionship, negetive or otherwise. Then again there's a lot to be said for a possible borderline personality disorder, and pathological lying.

Ciara 01-11-2003 10:58 AM

I had no wait at the hospital. I was immediately put into suicide watch room. So yes I was there for six hours. I'm glad you are all amused.

wolf 01-11-2003 11:09 AM

Waiting in an exam room for six hours is not a hospitalization, under anyone's definition.

I am encouraged that you went to seek help, and hopefully are continuing in this effort.

Depending upon your county of residence you can receive inpatient treatment through county funding if you have no other coverage or do not qualify for medical assistance. This system is in place for Philadelphia and all the surrounding PA counties.

Ciara 01-11-2003 11:12 AM

And one more thing, I don't sit all day at the computer.

Maybe I should confess? I'm trailer trash, I never really had any job, I just want your money, even though I have only mentioned it once. I want you to all feel pity for me, I want you all to hate me because negative attention is better than no attention at all. Just don't read anything of mine, and don't respond to anything of mine, and I will go away. The more attention you give me, the more I will be around. I;m a leech, I love begging people for things. I live off of my parents, even though my father has been dead since I was 4. My brother hands over his unemployment checks to me, no questions asked, because he thinks this makes me happy. I live in a beautiful $300,000 home. I drive a BMW, white. In my 3 car garage is my 2001 corvette. I also own a Sting Ray Vette. They are my pride and joy. I have no children because I am too selfish to have any, because I only think of myself. Yes I had 2 misscarriages, but I was glad that it happened that way. God forbid, I'd have to take care of them. I don't do a damn thing all day because my butler and maid do everything for me. If I wish for them to wipe my ass, they do so. Hey they get paid well enough. Only the best of everything for me. You know how I got so rich? By asking people like you for help. Make of this what you will. And leave me alone.

Ciara 01-11-2003 11:14 AM

I WAS NOT IN THE WAITING ROOM, for six hours.

wolf 01-11-2003 11:33 AM

(*shrugs*) and you wonder why people don't react well to you?

elSicomoro 01-11-2003 11:47 AM

You know, Ciara is right on one thing: She didn't come back here until Wolf brought up the article and I mentioned the diary the other day.

All 33 of her posts are in this particular thread...based on this and my above paragraph, Ciara has apparently decided not to participate in the Cellar as a whole at this point.

So, as a suggestion to the other Dwellars on here...perhaps we really should just shut up on this one.

juju 01-11-2003 12:16 PM

She probably has the feature turned on where the board e-mails you if there have been new posts to a thread that you have participated in.

Therefore, isn't it more fun to know that we have the power to send her spam every other day?

Ciara 01-11-2003 12:30 PM

Yep, you have the power to spam me.

juju 01-11-2003 12:36 PM

Ahhh, power! Sweet, intoxicating POWER!

Ciara 01-11-2003 12:39 PM

Behold the power of cheese. :)

Anyway, I will leave you guys alone, if you leave me alone. I really don't need any more headaches. I have enough emotional and mental problems to begin with. I am seeking help. I go on Tuesday. I feel good about this. I can finally start getting my life back into some kind of order. If anyway wishes(which I doubt) to know how I am doing, drop me a line.

Undertoad 01-11-2003 12:48 PM

It sounds like you are doing the right thing. Despite our statements I'm sure everyone wishes you well in their hearts. While we are not charitable to strangers, which is generally a good approach anyway, it seems we are incredibly generous with advice. Although you haven't been open to it, sometimes advice is what people need.

If you want me to close the thread or turn off the email notification, just let me know. Good luck out there.

Ciara 01-11-2003 01:42 PM

I would like it to be closed. Please, everyone wants nothing to do with me, and I don't want anything to do with it.


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