UT... I know what you mean. It's the little things.

I started using the vanilla scent trees in my car. She hates vanilla. And I listen to MY music in the car. Not hers.

It's the stupid little things.

I used to not watch a movie thinking that later we would watch together or I wouldn't do anything until she woke up....things like that.. and I still find myself do that. I have to work on it.

Homer, I haven't been paynig attention to this thread, so I'm late to the game. Really sorry you had to go through this, but I have to say I admire the fact that you're getting through it as well as you are. Good luck with everything.

Don't forget to do the one thing that women hate most...

Nothing, absolutely nothing.

Sublime

This is a start. :)

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I used to not watch a movie thinking that later we would watch together or I wouldn't do anything until she woke up....things like that.. and I still find myself do that. I have to work on it.

It'll take time...don't rush it. Work on this in your own time, your own way. Remember: don't dwell, but do acknowledge.

Come to the picnic. Ask bruce about it. It's a good time.

When and where is the picnic?

Chadds Ford, PA June 26. Guests are encouraged to stay overnight, and a second sub-picnic occurs to assist in recovery and reentry into the world.

No, it's not. With all those naked women dancing around, it's really hard to sleep. :(

did i mention that i will be attending?

edit: clarifying joke

And the only good thing coming out of that is the free weed and beer you're bringing.

for everyone but you, you little troll. :)

hey, what sports? do they set up volleyball or horseshoes?

I don't want your THC-less bud anyway...

We play a mean game of Throw the Drunk Guy in the Fire. There's also I Can Drink My Beer with My Boobs.

you're so easy. I knew you wouldnt be able to resist that.

If I got high with you, Syc, you might actually start to understand where it is that I come from. You shall see. Sit at the feet of the master. Become one with the ganja.

[robert]
...It's that cosmic energy, and everybody goes, "YEAAAAH........BASH!!"[/plant]

In short, jimbo, you'll either want to find a sitter, or send jinx home with the kids before sunset. I recommend the sitter, as there have been years that the nakedness starts early.

i have to work that day, and then on sunday we'll be celebrating Ippy's birthday, so I'll probably just stop down around 6pm or so. I won't be able to drink, cuz I'll have to drive home........probably.

I plan on showing up...and parking at the TOP this time. :D

I'm also negotiating for a tent and sleeping bag so I can stay late.
You may also be treated to a Junior appearance, although care should be exercised when petting a strange dog. He likes hot dogs too! That is only IF I can't get a sitter for the weekend.

Brian

I'll pass.

I'm sorry but I will not be able to make it. I live in Colorado so It's not like I can just stop by. Plus, I'm trying to build up my vacation for the Christmas holiday so that I can go home and see family.

But I wish I could be there. I sure could use it.

Great, just send Jinxs.:)

jinxs? there is only one jinx.

i finally talked her into coming, btw. I had to let it slip that you'd be there bruce, and promise to make sure it was sycamore that gets drunk and falls into the fire, but she finally caved in.

Eh, no...I don't drink myself to the point of drunkenness anymore.

Plastic Forks comes but once a year ... it's the one time of year that I drink to get drunk.

Darnit, Homer, I thought you were local. Sorry dude. But if you SHOULD happen to be in the Philly area ... do let us know.

I guarantee, if I'm in the Philly area, you will be the first to know.

and with my new found freedom, you just never know.

Do you lot often meet up in person then?

Not really...twice in the past year, but before last June, it had been several years.

I could barely get a buzz last year...probably b/c I ate too much.

Just remember Onyx, newbie has to bring the weed...or the beer...or the Jim Beam...

If it wasn't for the whole fingerprint-and-photo charade I'd consider popping over for a week and saying hi. One day maybe.

What more likely saved you was the fact that it was not terribly hot ... so you weren't really REALLY thirsty ... so you didn't need as much liquid refreshment.

should I bring my Conga Drum?

Drumming usually waits until after dark and the bonfire ...

15 minutes north of the pa delaware line above wilmington.....on a PA/DE/NJ map, it's between West Chester and Wilmington. rte 1 & rte 202

proper directions are available ... PM or email me.

Forks rules, the few that we have anyway, allow that anyone who has attended has invitation privilege.

does that mean that we have to be nice to you until june 26th so our assumed invitation is not revoked?

Of course, she could just kill you and bury you at the property...

I'll bring the potato salad. I have a recipe I'm interested in experimenting with.

I'll have a Moose Call" too, if I get help with the booze. I can't afford to drop over a hundred bucks on booze to make the stuff. But it's damn good, lemme tell ya! Bring me a fifth each of light, dark and spiced rum, I have Kahlua and Tia Marie. I can also bring the mystery ingredient and a big bowl. You provide your own cups or mugs.

Brian

PS I started a thread in Food and Drink for Forks food talk and recipes and such.

You get here, I'll get you there.:)