Why no I don't!

Why no I don't!

Why no I don't!

ThatGuy, just ask her if she is interested in a threesome and uncomplicate things.

There sure are some confused people here.

That's one way to look at it. Or I do ask for it they both accept and then it gets really fucking complicated.

Unless you are in an open marriage (and the wife is aware that the marriage is open to others) end the marriage BEFORE you cheat.

Just for a moment... Ask yourself what your wife would think if she stumbled upon this conversation. Would she feel that you have the respect and love for her that she thought you did or would she be shocked and deeply hurt that you'd even entertain this line of thought.

As a married woman myself... I can tell you that if I was your wife... I'd already feel betrayed by you... there is a big difference between flirting, fantasy and contemplating bringing it into the reality... that is the line you don't cross if you plan to stay in a happy marriage. You've already crossed that line my friend... which says... no matter how happy you claim to be ... you aren't being honest with yourself about that... and you definitly aren't being honest with your wife.

Raise your hand if you think ThatGuy IS that guy, despite his protesting said title and way of life, and is completely full of shit.

Count one right here. :eyebrow:

Contemplating bringing it into the reality is part of the fantasy. Sure, tell her this chick is propositioning him and she'll either:
1- Freak out, stir up shit and probably get him fired, or
2- somehow twist it around so it's his fault, and throw it in his face during every argument, forever.

Maybe both.

Aww, poor that. If he wants doesn't want to play with the big dogs, he should stay on the porch and enjoy it or quit his fucking salivating and barking.

Really, does he need to be every cliche in the book? Does his wife need be?

HA! :)

Do you think he's a sock puppet for a regular here?

You've either;
1. met his wife
2. or you just have a really low opinion of women in general.

the latter is my vote

I've had a lot of experience watching married couples interact, and seen it happen over and over.

You should interact with actual real human married couples. Again, cliche.

Sure, good luck finding it, but it's evident in many people I know: mutual respect and consideration.