Sorry, this thread has me confused...
Or rather, the responses do?

"What have you not said because you're a bad parent"?
Or... things you didn't say recently you should have said?

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You guys are mean to your kids! In your heads... Wow, I hope my dad never thought this kind of stuff about me XD

It's "what have you wanted to say recently that you didn't say?" and the thing Griff didn't say to someone is "...because you're a bad parent." Other people's responses are things they didn't say to other people at other times.

Won't waste UT's bandwidth here. check youtube.

It's like this...

Some lady sits next to you at McD's with two unruly children who won't stop shrieking, throwing food at each other, won't keep their butts in their chairs long enough to eat a happy meal. And she looks over at you with this sad expression and says "I don't know WHY they act like this."

And you WANT to say "because you're a shitty mom!"

But you can't. You just nod and smile sympathetically and thank God you're almost done with your burger and can get the hell out of there.

That's the sort of thing we didn't say.

But you know, maybe more people should say what they really want to say instead of enabling all of these lame-ass losers who think they're doing JUST FINE because nobody complains.

Just a thought.