Can you elaborate on what you think your possible courses of action might be here? It seems pretty obvious that "respect her wishes, and leave her alone" is the correct choice. I can't think of any others. There aren't any others.

Hopefully it doesn't really matter. If she has half a brain, she's already filing for another restraining order right this minute.

Well... I was getting mix signals from the begging.. the restraining order was
was because she thought I was involved in some sort of cult, which was not true, unless I was brain washed.. therefore I have kept my distance from the begging.. and I think I was brain washed... so now I'm left with nothing but doubt and it's just difficult to not think what could have been...

Uh dude- Do you have a cat or hamster or something else in your life to think about other than some girl from 5+ years ago that thought so little of you as to get a restraining order to keep you away from her?

WTF are you thinking about. Let it go. Look forward. You can't go back anyway. What was will never be. Its in the past - LEAVE IT THERE>

Trust Me I'm over it... the whole situation just rattles my mind sometimes.. to me it's like a mystery that I must solve and the only clue I have is her....

OK, noone is actually buying any of this story, right? Right?

At the same time I don't want to have anything to do with her... I dunno
this is what it amounts to.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3b4QXey_m5c

Right.

I get a mari****o vibe from this nutter.

No, you're not over it. You just admitted that you aren't over it--in the same breath. There is no mystery. There is nothing to solve. You freaked this girl out so bad (for whatever reason) that she has taken drastic measures to avoid ALL CONTACT with you.

There are no mixed signals. These are CLEAR SIGNALS. There should be NO DOUBT, there is NOTHING that "could have" or will EVER, EVER, EVER, in a MILLION YEARS, "be" between you and this person. EVER.

If I was this girl I would be buying a gun. THAT IS HOW FUCKING CRAZY YOU SOUND.

Imagine going before a judge and asking for a restraining order because you think your "friend" is in a cult. Think you'd be walking away with one? Good for 5 YEARS?
Yeah, no.

So I guess I should get a restraining order myself against the people who started the whole mess then.. hmm Rockefeller Construction. Trust me there is more to this than just a bunch of mixed up rules I have no intention of ever talking to her again until I get married then I am going to invite her on a double date to the ballet.

I think I need to get a restraining order

Collect them all!

Wot everyone else said, with a firm slap up the back of the head for emphasis.


Leave past-woman alone. Never contact. Maybe you need some counselling, or psychotherapy, if you really were brainwashed in a cult.
Or go find some other chick and bang her into the middle of next week, if that will take your mind off things.