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TheMercenary 11-16-2008 08:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Radar (Post 504720)
Whatever you say douchebag. I didn't say people should be thrown out for disagreeing with me. I said they should be thrown out for violating the rights of other citizens. It's not a matter of agreeing or disagreeing on a subject. If that's all that was happening, there wouldn't be a problem. It's not the words of the right-wing dickheads like you that bother me. It's the actions.

They are taking actions to violate the civil rights of one set of citizens simply because they don't like them. This makes them unworthy of living in America. In fact, it makes them unworthy to live period. If they get to decide on whether other people marry, then I get to decide whether or not they are allowed to live.

Now run along you little cock jockey and try to pretend that I haven't beaten you in every political debate we've ever had.

http://www.politopics.com/uploaded_i...sty-799292.jpg

TheMercenary 11-16-2008 09:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Radar (Post 504023)
I'm being affected by Prop 8. It's seriously pissing me off. I think each and every single person who voted for it should be deported. If you're stupid enough to think your rights include determining what rights other people have, you don't belong in America because you have no understanding of what rights are or what freedom means.

This specifically says things you believe to be fact:

1) You feel you are being affected by a group of individuals rights to use the system as it was set up and get a proposition on the ballot, open to a majority democratic vote.

2) You are pissed off by it. I can buy that but I can't buy your failure to recognize that others have a legal right to enact state law within the framework of their state constitution.

3) You think that these people are stupid, implying you are in some way smarter, which you are quite obviously not.

4) You have the right to determine that these people, legal US citizens, do not deserve to live in the US.

5) You are the only person who may determine an understanding of what rights are or what freedom means in this country. And you have been proven many times over to have nothing more than an opinion not based on anything other than your own understandings, misunderstandings, and prejudices. Many scholars disagree with you but you fail to recognize that others may have valid arguments which contradict your extreme views. And unfortunately for you, the scholars have credentials, you have none.

Now someone bring me some popcorn. :corn:

Radar 11-16-2008 10:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheMercenary (Post 504790)
This specifically says things you believe to be fact:

1) You feel you are being affected by a group of individuals rights to use the system as it was set up and get a proposition on the ballot, open to a majority democratic vote.

2) You are pissed off by it. I can buy that but I can't buy your failure to recognize that others have a legal right to enact state law within the framework of their state constitution.

3) You think that these people are stupid, implying you are in some way smarter, which you are quite obviously not.

4) You have the right to determine that these people, legal US citizens, do not deserve to live in the US.

5) You are the only person who may determine an understanding of what rights are or what freedom means in this country. And you have been proven many times over to have nothing more than an opinion not based on anything other than your own understandings, misunderstandings, and prejudices. Many scholars disagree with you but you fail to recognize that others may have valid arguments which contradict your extreme views. And unfortunately for you, the scholars have credentials, you have none.

Now someone bring me some popcorn. :corn:


Wrong as usual.

1. The group does NOT have a right to use the system to violate the rights of another. I'm affected because they are misusing the system. Democracy doesn't mean one group of people gets to vote on the rights of another. Not everything can be voted on.

2. The legitimate powers of government are derived from the rights of individuals. Since no person has the right to force another not to marry, they may not give this power to government. No framework allows this because it all comes down to this fact.

3. You're not in a position to judge my intelligence since I'm obviously far more intelligent and well-educated than you and I'm smarter than anyone who denies the existence of rights or who thinks they have the authority to vote on the rights of others.

4. Neither you, nor I have any right to determine whether or not others may come into America. The federal government has no authority in the matter, and we have no authority to grant government such a power since we, as individuals, do not have this power.

5. I have more than an "opinion" about it. I've proven each and every single thing I've ever said about the Constitution, the limitations on the powers of the federal government, my vast and accurate understanding of civics, the Constitution, the founders, and the meaning of freedom. I've backed up everything I've ever said with facts, reason, logic, and historical documentation. My views are not extreme in the slightest, but if they were, I'd remind you of Barry Goldwater's line...

"Extremism in the defense of liberty is no vice; moderation in the pursuit of justice is no virtue"

TheMercenary 11-16-2008 10:36 AM

:corn:

TheMercenary 11-16-2008 10:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Radar (Post 504828)
Wrong as usual.

1. The group does NOT have a right to use the system to violate the rights of another. I'm affected because they are misusing the system. Democracy doesn't mean one group of people gets to vote on the rights of another. Not everything can be voted on.

2. The legitimate powers of government are derived from the rights of individuals. Since no person has the right to force another not to marry, they may not give this power to government. No framework allows this because it all comes down to this fact.

3. You're not in a position to judge my intelligence since I'm obviously far more intelligent and well-educated than you and I'm smarter than anyone who denies the existence of rights or who thinks they have the authority to vote on the rights of others.

4. Neither you, nor I have any right to determine whether or not others may come into America. The federal government has no authority in the matter, and we have no authority to grant government such a power since we, as individuals, do not have this power.

5. I have more than an "opinion" about it. I've proven each and every single thing I've ever said about the Constitution, the limitations on the powers of the federal government, my vast and accurate understanding of civics, the Constitution, the founders, and the meaning of freedom. I've backed up everything I've ever said with facts, reason, logic, and historical documentation. My views are not extreme in the slightest, but if they were, I'd remind you of Barry Goldwater's line...

"Extremism in the defense of liberty is no vice; moderation in the pursuit of justice is no virtue"

Radar's Rantings and the Narcissistic Personality Disorder

http://www.halcyon.com/jmashmun/npd/dsm-iv.html#npd

Radar 11-16-2008 11:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Juniper (Post 504762)
Very well. In that case, on what basis would you determine what is NOT someone's right?

I believe I've been very clear on this matter, but I'll say it again.

We have the right to do ANYTHING we was as long as our actions do not physically harm, endanger, or violate the person, property, or rights of a non-consenting other.

Governments are here to defend us from being harmed by others, but not to protect us from harming ourselves.

If your actions initiate force or the threat of force (coercion) to make other people act a certain way, you are stepping beyond your rights.

If you make a law that says people must stop at red lights, you are defending safety. Since we have a right to defend ourselves, we may grant this power to government. If you make a law that says people must wear helmets when riding a motorcycle, you are using coercion (the threat that men with guns will show up and take away your freedom) to force someone else to do something against their will even though if they weren't doing it, it would not harm, endanger, or violate the person, property, or rights of non-consenting others.

If you make a law against rape, you are defending non-consenting people against the aggression of others. If you make a law that says someone may not offer sexual services for money, you are saying that you have a more of a claim to their body than they have for themselves and that you get to make decisions over their body against their will. You are trying to defend them against their own decisions.

This is a very clear and easy way to determine what is or is not a right.

I like to use the "If I were on an island" test.

If I were on an island with other people and no laws or government, would I have a right to do this?

For instance, if I were on an island that has people on it but no laws or government, would I have the right to prevent a woman from getting an abortion? Of course not. It is her own body and I have no say over her body or its contents. I therefore could not grant this power to government, and neither could a million of me, or a billion of me. Zero times a billion is still zero.


If I were on an island that has people on it but no laws or government, and someone tried to steal the vegetables I was growing, would I have the right to use force to stop them? Yes, I would because I'd be using defensive force, not aggressive force. If my neighbors and I agree to band together to defend against a gang of thugs, are we within our rights? Yes, because we are defending. We aren't trying to use force against other people to make them do something against their will.


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Originally Posted by Juniper (Post 504762)
Call me whatever you will, but don't you dare call me lazy. I've already read most of what you posted. As I said before, while I agree they were brilliant philosophers, they are not imprimatur. Theories. Opinions. Not proof.


These people prepared well-reasoned arguments about why rights exist. I have heard nothing equally intelligent to the contrary.

In the end it comes down to this.

You either believe we are born with rights and we own ourselves, or you think we have no rights, and we are the property of someone else or a group of someone else.

Radar 11-16-2008 11:22 AM

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Originally Posted by TheMercenary (Post 504834)
Radar's Rantings and the Narcissistic Personality Disorder

http://www.halcyon.com/jmashmun/npd/dsm-iv.html#npd


Stating that I'm more intelligent, well-educated, and well-reasoned than you is neither narcissistic, nor a disorder. It's just an accurate description of the facts.

Besides, you've got your own disorder to worry about...

http://bastardlogic.files.wordpress....ead_up_ass.jpg

Radar 11-16-2008 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted by bluecuracao (Post 504778)
OK, reading again, I misunderstood your post. And reading my post again, I misspoke. I agree with Radar that we all have inherent rights, but I came across as saying that no one does.

And fuck Thomas Paine.


Hear Hear!

TheMercenary 11-16-2008 11:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Radar (Post 504848)
Stating that I'm more intelligent, well-educated, and well-reasoned than you is neither narcissistic, nor a disorder. It's just an accurate description of the facts.

Besides, you've got your own disorder to worry about...

http://bastardlogic.files.wordpress....ead_up_ass.jpg

You fail again. It is all explained here:

http://cellar.org/showpost.php?p=504834&postcount=125

:corn:

Radar 11-16-2008 12:08 PM

Is linking to your own post, which I've already refuted supposed to prove something other than the fact that you got owned?

:corn:

TheMercenary 11-16-2008 12:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Radar (Post 504863)
Is linking to your own post, which I've already refuted supposed to prove something other than the fact that you got owned?

You have refuted nothing, only whined about your personality disorder.

:corn:

classicman 11-16-2008 01:36 PM

I'm with Juniper - and unfortunately for you Radar - my opinion, just like everyone else's counts just as much as yours. The people have spoken and you lost - stop whining.

TheMercenary 11-16-2008 01:58 PM

:lol2: I gave up trying to have a logical discussion with that idiot a long time ago. You either agree with him or he has a tantrum. I could just see him slamming his fist on his keyboard and screaming at the computer because someone dared have a different opinion. It has become pretty entertaining if you ask me. :D

http://www.virginmedia.com/images/ma...computer-g.jpg

Aliantha 11-16-2008 03:45 PM

:corn:

TheMercenary 11-16-2008 03:48 PM

:corn:

Got any salt?

Aliantha 11-16-2008 03:50 PM

lol...sure.

I'm having mine with maltezers and a coke. :)

TheMercenary 11-16-2008 03:52 PM

Thanks, I'll give it right back.
http://www.senseicorp.com/senseiForW...ock-754055.jpg

That's better...

:corn:

Radar 11-16-2008 04:35 PM

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Originally Posted by TheMercenary (Post 504912)
:lol2: I gave up trying to have a logical discussion with that idiot a long time ago. You either agree with him or he has a tantrum. I could just see him slamming his fist on his keyboard and screaming at the computer because someone dared have a different opinion. It has become pretty entertaining if you ask me. :D


By all means, point out where I've had a "tantrum". I have set you straight, and corrected you when you've either said something stupid, or tried to lie. You're welcome to have any opinion you want as long as you don't take action on that opinion and try to legislate it onto others. I could give less than a shit about your opinion, or that of other douche nozzles like classicman. Your mean nothing to me.

It's only when you take actions that violate the rights of others that I get involved. When your fellow citizens the free exercise of their right to marry any consenting other they choose regardless of things like religion, sexual preference, gender, race, etc. you are committing a crime against them.

I do find it amusing that you have this whole scenario in your thoughtless little mind where I am frustrated or angry and shout at my screen or slam my keyboard. I guess when your mind isn't busy absorbing information, it must wander and daydream. You're just not important enough to me to ever make me upset. The most I'll do is correct you when you're wrong and rub your nose in it like a dog.

For the record, you gave up trying to have rational discussions with anyone before you ever started having conversations, and you aren't in a position to call anyone an idiot, especially your intellectual, social, and moral superiors like me.

Aliantha 11-16-2008 04:36 PM

Oh geez...I'm outta popcorn.

Anyone got some gum?

TheMercenary 11-16-2008 04:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Aliantha (Post 504941)
Oh geez...I'm outta popcorn.

Anyone got some gum?

Yep, right here.

http://pigeonmeister.com/images/WantSomeGum1.jpg

Aliantha 11-16-2008 04:39 PM

You're looking young these days Merc. You been moisturising? ;)

Juniper 11-16-2008 04:40 PM

Right or wrong, saying things like "I'm smarter/superior/better educated" is pretty lame. Those who have truly achieved those superlative heights, whether it be knowledge, wealth, or spiritual virtue, have no need to TELL others how good they are. It either shows, or it doesn't.

But I guess you do indeed have the right to be an ass.

TheMercenary 11-16-2008 04:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Radar (Post 504940)
For the record, you gave up trying to have rational discussions with anyone before you ever started having conversations, and you aren't in a position to call anyone an idiot, especially your intellectual, social, and moral superiors like me.So stop making fun of my narcissistic personality disorder!

:lol2:

Aliantha 11-16-2008 04:41 PM

I think you're catching on now Juni. :D

TheMercenary 11-16-2008 04:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Aliantha (Post 504944)
You're looking young these days Merc. You been moisturising? ;)

Yeppers! Youth pills. Ya think I might have over done it? :D

Aliantha 11-16-2008 04:42 PM

Maybe just a little bit. ;)

Radar 11-16-2008 04:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Juniper (Post 504945)
Right or wrong, saying things like "I'm smarter/superior/better educated" is pretty lame. Those who have truly achieved those superlative heights, whether it be knowledge, wealth, or spiritual virtue, have no need to TELL others how good they are. It either shows, or it doesn't.

But I guess you do indeed have the right to be an ass.


It's nice to see I've convinced you that we have rights. As far as tooting my own horn goes, it has more to do with his inferiority than my superiority. The average 40 year old guy working at a fast food place has a lot more on the ball than Merc.

TheMercenary 11-16-2008 04:49 PM

:corn: Ali, I still have some left, you want me to send you some?

Aliantha 11-16-2008 04:51 PM

Oh yeah...for Xmas. lol Yummy.

Juniper 11-16-2008 04:51 PM

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It's nice to see I've convinced you that we have rights.
That was sarcasm. :rolleyes:

Aliantha 11-16-2008 04:53 PM

This thread has become as entertaining as the 'liberal thugocracy' thread. :)

TheMercenary 11-16-2008 04:54 PM

NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDER


Diagnostic Features:

Narcissistic personality disorder is a condition characterized by an inflated sense of self-importance, need for admiration, extreme self-involvement, and lack of empathy for others. Individuals with this disorder are usually arrogantly self-assured and confident. They expect to be noticed as superior. Many highly successful individuals might be considered narcissistic. However, this disorder is only diagnosed when these behaviors become persistent and very disabling or distressing.

Complications:

Vulnerability in self-esteem makes individuals with this disorder very sensitive to criticism or defeat. Although they may not show it outwardly, criticism may haunt these individuals these individuals and may leave them feeling humiliated, degraded, hollow, and empty. They may react with disdain, rage, or defiant counterattack. Their social life is often impaired due to problems derived from entitlement, the need for admiration, and the relative disregard for the sensitivities of others. Though their excessive ambition and confidence may lead to high achievement; performance may be disrupted due to intolerance of criticism or defeat. Sometimes vocational functioning can be very low, reflecting an unwillingness to take a risk in competitive or other situations in which defeat is possible. Individuals with this disorder have special difficulties adjusting to growing old and losing their former ?superiority?.

Comorbidity:

In this disorder, sustained feelings of shame or humiliation and the attendant self-criticism may be associated with social withdrawal, depressed mood, and Dysthymic or Major Depressive Disorder. In contrast, sustained periods of grandiosity may be associated with a hypomanic mood. Anorexia Nervosa, Substance-Related Disorders (especially related to cocaine), and other Personality Disorders (especially Histrionic, Borderline, Antisocial, and Paranoid) frequently co-occur with this disorder.

Narcissistic personality disorder symptoms may include:

Believing that you're better than others
Fantasizing about power, success and attractiveness
Exaggerating your achievements or talents
Expecting constant praise and admiration
Believing that you're special
Failing to recognize other people's emotions and feelings
Expecting others to go along with your ideas and plans
Taking advantage of others
Expressing disdain for those you feel are inferior
Being jealous of others
Believing that others are jealous of you
Trouble keeping healthy relationships
Setting unrealistic goals
Being easily hurt and rejected
Having a fragile self-esteem
Appearing as tough-minded or unemotional

http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/nar...CTION=symptoms

jinx 11-16-2008 05:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Radar (Post 504847)
In the end it comes down to this.

You either believe we are born with rights and we own ourselves, or you think we have no rights, and we are the property of someone else or a group of someone else.

This is exactly right. Put aside your opinion of Radar's personality and think about it for a minute.

Natural rights. It's self explanatory.

Aliantha 11-16-2008 05:29 PM

It's true if you believe in the theory of yourself as the most important entity before all others.

DanaC 11-16-2008 05:40 PM

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Originally Posted by jinx (Post 504969)
This is exactly right. Put aside your opinion of Radar's personality and think about it for a minute.

Natural rights. It's self explanatory.


I am still unconvinced that rights exist as anything other than a human construct. Those rights which we have constructed and agreed upon (as a society) I deem worthy of defending and I see them as an integral part of 'civilisation' ... but they are something we, as humans have come up with and applied to ourselves.

jinx 11-16-2008 05:44 PM

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I am still unconvinced that rights exist as anything other than a human construct.
So what you're saying is that the first humans had no rights until they became civilized enough construct them? That makes no sense to me. How is it that they were able to live and be free if they didn't have the right to?
Oppression of rights is a human construct. Privileges are a human construct.

DanaC 11-16-2008 05:49 PM

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Originally Posted by jinx (Post 504975)
So what you're saying is that the first humans had no rights until they became civilized enough construct them? That makes no sense to me. How is it that they were able to live and be free if they didn't have the right to?
Oppression of rights is a human construct. Privileges are a human construct.


They lived and were free (presumably) because they lived and were free. Rights have nothing to do with it. Lions live and are free. Mammoths lived and were free. Humans lived and were free. It has nothing to do with rights. We're just biological systems.

[eta] Humans had the capacity to live and be free, rather than the right.

jinx 11-16-2008 05:54 PM

It's exactly the same thing.

Until someone (society/government etc) comes along and violates your rights... you have the right to live and be free and do whatever you want that doesn't violate someone elses rights.

Undertoad 11-16-2008 06:25 PM

Construct any notion of rights you like. Society treats you according to its definition, not yours. You can say "help, my rights are being infringed upon!" And you may well be right, by some knowable, provable philosophy. But your cries are meaningless to society, because society simply does not give a shit.

Having the rights is the really easy part -- if they're natural, you're born with them, mission accomplished. You can say that was the important part, but if you're, say, killed, the very notion that you would have any rights died along with your brain tissue. Defending the rights, now that's the tough part.

Why just today a guy was ruining my right to travel down the road at any speed I like, by driving in front of me at a slower speed.

So I shot him. Why take chances?

TheMercenary 11-16-2008 06:27 PM

I lean towards Dana's thinking on this. We never knew what we had (rights) until we began to have societal constructs such as government to restrict our freedoms. Only then were we even able to define "rights" in the sense we discuss here. The "rights" described in the Constitution are another thing which man uses to describe where government can and cannot intervene.

jinx 11-16-2008 06:38 PM

Why do we (european settlers) make restitution to the native peoples of our lands? Is it because we realize we violated their natural rights?
They certainly didn't have any rights constructed within our society.... so fuck em right?

The US constitution defines some of the rights that government may not infringe upon, and others that it may protect. It does not grant any rights.

TheMercenary 11-16-2008 06:40 PM

We have not made any restitution to anyone as far as I know.

jinx 11-16-2008 06:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Undertoad (Post 504983)
Why just today a guy was ruining my right to travel down the road at any speed I like, by driving in front of me at a slower speed.

Driving is a privilege, not a right. Didn't you take driver ed? ;)

Juniper 11-16-2008 06:43 PM

Dana -- that's precisely it, very well stated.

Jinx -- if we did make restitution, it would probably be because the powers that be decided that this restitution was good for society in general. Oppressed people do not make good consumers for the retail industry.

TheMercenary 11-16-2008 06:45 PM

What restitution? we put them on reservations and gave them shit. Now some are getting payback in the form of tax free gambling houses. But I still don't see that we gave them any form of restitution.

jinx 11-16-2008 06:46 PM

They don't get any perks Merc?

TheMercenary 11-16-2008 06:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jinx (Post 504995)
They don't get any perks Merc?

Few if any of substance.

Aliantha 11-16-2008 07:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jinx (Post 504987)
Why do we (european settlers) make restitution to the native peoples of our lands? Is it because we realize we violated their natural rights?
They certainly didn't have any rights constructed within our society.... so fuck em right?

The US constitution defines some of the rights that government may not infringe upon, and others that it may protect. It does not grant any rights.


One group invades another and takes what they want, including rights. The right to live in peace. The right to a heritage. The right to culture.

Did they have those rights in the first place? Were they natural, or did those things evolve as time went on into something that the people took for granted till they were no longer possible?

It's the group with the power that has the rights. Natural or otherwise, it matters not. If you have no power, you have no rights.

classicman 11-16-2008 11:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Radar (Post 504940)
I could give less than a shit about your opinion, or that of other douche nozzles like classicman. Your mean nothing to me.

Well well well. At least I have enough class to dislike you while still maintaining the opinion that your opinion still matters and I recognize you have been given the right to that opinion. Lucky for you, you live in America so that you can spout your drivel. Unfortunate for the rest of us.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Radar (Post 504940)
For the record, you gave up trying to have rational discussions with anyone before you ever started having conversations, and you aren't in a position to call anyone an idiot, especially your intellectual, social, and moral superiors like me.

Bwahahhahahha - funny part is that you actually believe it. You truly are a legend in your own mind.


Quote:

Originally Posted by Juniper (Post 504958)
That was sarcasm. :rolleyes:

He doesn't usually catch that.

ZenGum 11-17-2008 01:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Juniper (Post 504739)
Oh shit, hang on - you're actually saying that voting against gay marriage is equivalent to murder?

I am debating with a madman. :headshake

Well, I was warned, and I didn't listen, eh?

Many people reach enlightenment in disputation with Radar, just not the way Radar intends. :)

Congratulations Juniper.

Urbane Guerrilla 11-17-2008 11:22 PM

Remember that when you're dealing with Radar you are dealing with a man as incapable of respect as he is of compassion. At best, he finds a refuge in his tortured understanding of legalism. At worst, a clever opponent cuts him off from that refuge and exposes his crankery for all to see, which is why Radar doesn't get respect. He's too flawed as a human being, and he writes to demonstrate his flaws, whether that was his intent or not.

classicman 03-07-2009 11:22 PM

Hawaii civil unions bill stalled

Quote:

State Senate leaders are wavering on whether to revive a civil-unions bill by pulling it from committee and are discussing possible amendments to advance it while preserving the integrity of the committee process.
While senators may have reservations in private, a vote on the Senate floor would put them on the spot publicly, and a majority have told gay activists they support civil unions.

State Senate President Colleen Hanabusa, D-21st (Nanakuli, Makaha), said she would like Senate Democrats to come to a consensus. She said earlier reports that the Senate had the votes to pull the bill from committee and to pass it on the floor were accurate at the time. But she said some senators are now looking at other factors, including the importance of maintaining the committee process.

"My position is that we need to ensure that the Senate does not damage itself, and I'm talking about the relationships among senators, as a result of any action taken," Hanabusa said. "So I am going to explore as many of the potential possibilities to see if the Senate can reach a consensus."

Ultimately, a majority of senators can control the chamber. But the Senate is guided by internal rules and has only rarely voted to pull a bill that has stalled in committee. The Senate Judiciary and Government Operations Committee deadlocked 3-3 last month on the civil-unions bill.

The bill would give same-sex partners the same rights, benefits and responsibilities as married couples under state law. It would also recognize domestic partnerships, civil unions and same-sex marriages performed in other states as civil unions in Hawai'i.

The state House passed the bill last month in a 33-17 vote.

Some senators said privately that Senate leaders are having second thoughts because of the large demonstration against civil unions at the state Capitol last month and the thousands of telephone calls and e-mails urging them to drop the issue. Supporters of civil unions are also doing outreach, but it appears the opponents have had the momentum since the bill left the House.

State Sen. Will Espero, D-20th ('Ewa Beach, Waipahu), has proposed amending the bill as a compromise. He said he would convert the state's existing reciprocal beneficiaries law, which provides same-sex partners some of the same rights as marriage, into civil unions with additional rights.

His proposal would give same-sex partners more rights than they have now but not the identical rights as marriage under state law.

"The intent of the amendment is to find a win-win situation where both sides will feel better," he said. "(The civil unions bill) as voted on now would make one side extremely happy and the other side extremely sad and disappointed."

The amendment could help the bill win broader support in the Senate but would likely raise complications if the bill moves into conference with the House.

Gay activists have told lawmakers that civil unions already are a compromise because they are less than full marriage equality. Same-sex partners in civil unions would not be recognized like married couples under federal law and the partnerships would not be honored in states that do not recognize civil unions.

Some senators also question why an amendment is necessary when a majority has already indicated they support civil unions. Some suggest privately that senators are looking for political cover through an amendment or the committee process to avoid taking a public vote now that the issue has turned so contentious.

State Sen. Les Ihara, Jr., D-9th (Kapahulu, Kaimuki, Palolo), said the state Constitution included the procedure for pulling bills from committee to protect minority rights. Drafters of the constitution, he said, wanted to prevent the majority from freezing bills in committee when at least one-third of the chamber wanted to bring the bill to the floor for debate.

Ihara said a vote on pulling the civil-unions bill should happen even if a majority of senators are unable to reach consensus. "This is really about protecting minority rights in the constitution," he said.

Many of the leading opponents of civil unions met yesterday afternoon at the First Assembly of God Church in Red Hill to discuss strategy. Dane Senser, a victims' rights advocate, said he believes senators are feeling the pressure. The 15 1/2-hour committee hearing last month, where opponents outnumbered supporters in often emotional testimony, was a taste of the public sentiment.

"This thing should be killed immediately," Senser said.

TGRR 03-08-2009 11:00 AM

If religious people wish to restrict the rights of other people based on their religion (no matter how they dress it up, "definitions of marriage", etc), then perhaps we should take another look at their tax-exempt status.

TGRR,
Has made a point of being rotten to Mormons since they got involved in Prop 8.

TheMercenary 03-09-2009 07:16 AM

I don't agree with Prop 8 but they used the system to pass the ban and now if they otherside wants to fight it they will have to do the same. The other side of the coin in people who support majority rule.

Sundae 03-09-2009 10:33 AM

I had to bite my tongue in front of my parents just the other day re gay adoption. They used to have a green box in their kitchen in which they put all their loose change for St Francis Children's Homes. It's been there since I remember (a different box every year I hasten to add!) But the Church can't distribute or collect the full boxes any more, because the said charity has refused to comply to UK anti-discrimination laws. It will not allow Catholic children to be adopted by gay couples.

I'm pretty sure I've written about this before here. My parents believe it is the Govt sticking its nose into matters of faith. I believe it is the Church cutting its nose off to spite its face and is certainly NOT in the spirit of Jesus' teaching. He who broke so many taboos at the time. Not to mention of course the fact I don't believe in him and am tired of the, "this doesn't apply to me becos my God says..." reasoning.

My Dad is homophobic. Growing up poor, practically uneducated (due to poor schooling post War and dyslexia) in the post Blitz East End and with a harsh father and two older brothers, it's not all that surprising. Converting to Catholicism when he met and engaged Mum only gave him another reason for his prejudice. Funnily enough, Mum, who worked in the nursing, Ambulance and Police met more gay people than a dog has fleas. She accepts them as one of the anomalies God will sort out when she gets to Heaven.

And it has not affected me in any way growing up. I have had openly gay friends. And secretly gay friends. Somehow, like people with hidden or past eating disorders, people seem to realise they can confide in me.

The majority decision is not always right. Democracy was never meant to suggest that. Women would not have had the vote in this country when they did if democracy meant mob rule.

sugarpop 03-09-2009 03:22 PM

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Originally Posted by TheMercenary (Post 543006)
I don't agree with Prop 8 but they used the system to pass the ban and now if they otherside wants to fight it they will have to do the same. The other side of the coin in people who support majority rule.

Yes, but is it really fair for people to actively campaign and influence the outcome on a state ballot when they don't live in that state? I don't think so.

classicman 03-09-2009 03:50 PM

Once this passes, and I'm sure it will soon, that will mark the beginning of the "slippery slope." It will begin to pass in more and more states. Whether you agree with it or not isn't the issue. Those who are fighting it in CA are doing so preemptively to their own state.

On the other hand, Lobbyists do the same thing every day. So do groups like ACORN and a whole host of others... whats the difference with this, other than you disagree with them?

TheMercenary 03-09-2009 04:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sugarpop (Post 543230)
Yes, but is it really fair for people to actively campaign and influence the outcome on a state ballot when they don't live in that state? I don't think so.

Politics is not about "fair", it is about legal.

sugarpop 03-09-2009 04:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by classicman (Post 543237)
Once this passes, and I'm sure it will soon, that will mark the beginning of the "slippery slope." It will begin to pass in more and more states. Whether you agree with it or not isn't the issue. Those who are fighting it in CA are doing so preemptively to their own state.

On the other hand, Lobbyists do the same thing every day. So do groups like ACORN and a whole host of others... whats the difference with this, other than you disagree with them?

I believe we should get rid of lobbyists. They have completely polluted the political system.

sugarpop 03-09-2009 04:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheMercenary (Post 543248)
Politics is not about "fair", it is about legal.

Sadly.


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