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Hehehehehe. I comment if they've clearly got new clothes or are all dolled up for going out.
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The problem is you can't know what someone else is thinking. They may have done something they feel makes them, like totally like different like ya know, but it's such a slight difference it could has been accidental or random. When nobody says anything, they're devastated. Or spent three hours fighting s blackhead or stray wisp of hair, then giving up. When somebody notices they're devastated. To be clear, this is not a female thing, it's a human thing.
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True enough. It was more when they were youngsters really. Mum and I realised that the first thing we always said to the girls, in our greetings, was pretty much to the effect that they looked nice. We just tried to be a bit more conscious of stuff and maybe mix it up a bit.
It's hard though - because the pair of them are and always have been drop dead gorgeous. In truth, it is often one of the first things I say to my bro as well when I see him. Because he is a bit of a style freak (style not fashion, I hasten to add) and likes to look good - he often has new clothes and it is instinctive to me to mention it. But he isn't surrounded by 24/7 cultural messaging telling him his looks are his most important quality. |
This made me smile a lot. These young lads are very impressive.
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This, on the other hand, did not make me want to smile. This is a piece from the Guardian, about the author's experience of travelling home from a show with her 13 year old daughter.
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It's a peculiar experience, being harrassed as a young teen. It can be threatening, it can also make you feel grownup. Often it is a combination of the two. I doubt there are many women who have not experienced some form of harrassment as youngsters. This was a particularly extreme example, but I recall several experiences from when I was around 12 years old, that definitely made men seem a much more dangerous proposition. It's funny how you learn to navigate it - like any other social landscape, it forms part of how you see the world. I don't mean that it warps you - just that the risk and danger is an ordinary part of the world you are in. Men, of course, have their own ordinary dangers to which they become accustomed and which they naturally take into account and navigate. But I thought some of the guys in particular might find the insight into a particularly female experience of interest. |
Here's a good one, The Thing All Women Do That You Don't Know About.
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Excellent article.
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I found myself out once with a group of older men I know reasonably well.
I wouldn't call them friends, but we know eachother's names and say Hello in the street, stop to pass the time of day. One of the men can be quite... irascible. He'd been challenged by someone on a committee he Chairs and was very grumpy. I was obvious he wanted to kick off. Now they were drinking (albeit slowly), and I had a soft drink, but there was no hint of violence; they're all retired anyway, not the usual age range for brawling. But I could see that his snapping was bringing the group down and I wanted to stay out a little longer in the warm, the light, some company. So I did my Princess Diana. I smiled, paid him attention, lowered my eyes, listened. Slowly diverted his conversation by asking about things I know he likes and enjoys (his caravan FFS!) It worked. He stopped being sarcastic, got off his high horse, joined in the usual banter. It wasn't until afterwards I realised what I'd done. I suppose I was being manipulative. After all I got what I wanted out of it. Another half hour or so stretching out a Diet Pepsi. And yes, I did feel a bit icky afterwards. |
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Manipulative? Nah. You poured oil on troubled waters and it didn't catch fire. I'd enter that in the credit side of life's ledger. :thumb: |
How can people still be aking these points ? This is only three years old.
And how is this still a thing? |
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Faux wouldn't do that to avoid talking about real issues, would they? :yesnod: |
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Number of viewers of the original speech clip on YouTube: about 10,000 (there are three of the original on Youtube, each with about 3,000 views) Number of people who have watched this clip, criticizing the original clip: 377,000 Views of a similar criticism video that's 17 minutes long: 328,000 The outrage is now nearly self-feeding. In the near future we won't need the original clip. |
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The fair minded British were equal opportunity employers before it was cool. ;)
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That looks so obscene. What makes it doubly horrible is that the man sitting there in that basket almost certainly subscribed to the view of women as the 'fairer sex' being weaker than men. That woman is not really a proper woman in his view. Not like the fair european women, epitomising civilisation with their grace and fragility. Her race and her class takes away from her humanity. If it didn't, then he'd be shamed by such a picture.
But, I came in here to post an article I just read in the Graudian (Guardian). Since this is the gender equality checkpoint, it's a good place to look at the big picture. Quote:
Now, those are some pretty shocking statistics, but they don't actually spell out the full reasons why this way of organising labour and resources is such a bad idea, particularly when it comes to female participation in the workplace. Not everybody believes that increased female participation in the workplace is a good idea. As evidenced by the recurring themes of working-mother shaming and latch-key kid panic in our media (particularly the conservative media) and the regular bemoaning of a by-gone age when women were wives and mothers first and everything else second, and touting the loss of that world as a corresponding threat to masculinity. Setting aside questions of fairness - which are complicated by the degree to which an individual believes men and women are just fundamentally different, and that they should retain fundamentally distinct but complimentary roles within society and family - let's look just at the concrete benefits of greater gender equality: Quote:
Read the rest here: http://www.theguardian.com/global-de...e-consequences |
this thread shouldn't really be in politics or should it
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