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monster 01-27-2009 08:59 PM

(pur home has been messy for 20 years, and we have nooo problems relaxing :D It's all a matter of state of mind. And mine is certainly a state :lol:)

Cloud 01-27-2009 09:01 PM

I agree to a point. But if it's causing you distress, or if you feel things are out of control (never a good feeling); or keeping you from having people in your home, even just to fix stuff or do necessary things, then--make a plan, take some steps. If it's not perfect, so what?

Aliantha 01-27-2009 09:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by monster (Post 527327)
Rebel, people! Tidiness it a waste of time in a busy life. Make sure your trash gets in the bin, and out on the kerb, your laundry gets to the machine before you run out of clothes or it walks there itself, and your dishes get done before they attract flies and you're good. The rest can wait til you retire. Or die. Then it'll be a bonding experience for your kids.

:D

Don't listen to her! She's crazy!!!!

monster 01-27-2009 09:04 PM

oh yes, distress is bad. but sometimes it's easier to fix your distress triggers than your house.... ;) after all, pets don't care, so it must be a learned behaviour..... :D

SteveDallas 01-27-2009 09:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by monster (Post 527327)
Rebel, people! Tidiness it a waste of time in a busy life. Make sure your trash gets in the bin, and out on the kerb, your laundry gets to the machine before you run out of clothes or it walks there itself, and your dishes get done before they attract flies and you're good. The rest can wait til you retire. Or die. Then it'll be a bonding experience for your kids.

:D

I just wanted to post that again because it was so good.

Cloud 01-27-2009 10:07 PM

aim for "lived in" but not slovenly

monster 01-27-2009 10:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cloud (Post 527350)
aim for "lived in" but not slovenly

why?

why not aim for the bext you can do given the time and willing avaialable? (you may assume a positive correlstion between distress over mess and willingness)

Nirvana 01-27-2009 10:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by monster (Post 527327)
Rebel, people! Tidiness it a waste of time in a busy life. Make sure your trash gets in the bin, and out on the kerb, your laundry gets to the machine before you run out of clothes or it walks there itself, and your dishes get done before they attract flies and you're good. The rest can wait til you retire. Or die. Then it'll be a bonding experience for your kids.

:D

I love you Monster! :D

xoxoxoBruce 01-27-2009 10:48 PM

God damn! There sure are a lot of people that want to tell other people how to live. If you don't like it, don't let the door hit you in the ass, ya judgmental pricks. :p

Aliantha 01-27-2009 10:49 PM

What is it with all the pricks around this place this arvy???

xoxoxoBruce 01-27-2009 10:50 PM

They're too damn judgmental.

Cloud 01-27-2009 11:02 PM

because lived in is comfortable and slovenly is a health hazard. I would never be comfortable or happy in a too-clean house or a Martha Stewart type house.

xoxoxoBruce 01-27-2009 11:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cloud (Post 527362)
because lived in is comfortable and slovenly is a health hazard.

Bah, those clean freaks never build up any resistance... the terrorists will wipe them out in the first wave.

Aliantha 01-27-2009 11:52 PM

That's why you get your kids to play in the dirt. It's just better if they don't have to live in it. ;)

xoxoxoBruce 01-28-2009 12:03 AM

Clutter (mess) does not equal dirty/unhealthy... that's a connection too many people (my mother) incorrectly make.


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