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(pur home has been messy for 20 years, and we have nooo problems relaxing :D It's all a matter of state of mind. And mine is certainly a state :lol:)
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I agree to a point. But if it's causing you distress, or if you feel things are out of control (never a good feeling); or keeping you from having people in your home, even just to fix stuff or do necessary things, then--make a plan, take some steps. If it's not perfect, so what?
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oh yes, distress is bad. but sometimes it's easier to fix your distress triggers than your house.... ;) after all, pets don't care, so it must be a learned behaviour..... :D
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aim for "lived in" but not slovenly
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why not aim for the bext you can do given the time and willing avaialable? (you may assume a positive correlstion between distress over mess and willingness) |
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God damn! There sure are a lot of people that want to tell other people how to live. If you don't like it, don't let the door hit you in the ass, ya judgmental pricks. :p
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What is it with all the pricks around this place this arvy???
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They're too damn judgmental.
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because lived in is comfortable and slovenly is a health hazard. I would never be comfortable or happy in a too-clean house or a Martha Stewart type house.
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That's why you get your kids to play in the dirt. It's just better if they don't have to live in it. ;)
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Clutter (mess) does not equal dirty/unhealthy... that's a connection too many people (my mother) incorrectly make.
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