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A few good friends of mine have high level functioning Asp kids. One mother is also most likely Asp as well although it was not being diagnosed per se at that time in any capacity.
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I do not have any online links, no. What I have is this:
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You get one guess where I copied those quotes from. |
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The fact remains that I have sat in a conference room with 50 other Pre-K autistic children all from my school district, all of whom had serious and obvious developmental delays, most of whom were completely nonverbal. Given the size of my school district, that works out to slightly less than the national rate of 1 in 150 (1 in 90 boys, because boys are affected 4 times more often than girls,) because of course this was a PPCD meeting and it didn't include any of the older autistic kids already in the system. If you could have sat in that room with me, you would understand the despair. None of these children could have slipped through the cracks in years past, ever. There are always going to be a handful of borderline cases that could persevere and cope on their own, but they are insignificant in the face of the total numbers. At any rate, I'm done discussing the topic with you, Tiki. I get enough of the "they'll grow out of it" head-in-the-sand bullshit from my older relatives, I don't need to subject myself to more of it here. |
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Language delay is subjective for each child, based on where the child *should* be for their abilities. That is my point; that is why very intelligent, high-functioning autistic children have great difficulty being correctly diagnosed, and why there is reason to believe that in the past many did not get diagnosed with anything at all. Aspergers is included in the overall statistical rise in autism figures, as it is a form of autism. The school language development specialist said there is no significant delay compared to statistics for her age group (there is a slight delay compared to average, but not enough to be considered pathological) but when assessed as an individual by the neurology center and by our pediatrician, she was found to have significant delays compared to where she should be based on her IQ. She was performing at an average for the general population, but was delayed for where she, as an individual should be. J, my friend's child, had the same difficulty with getting the school to recommend testing... because his extremely high intelligence was masking his disorder, he was able to function at a reasonable average despite the fact that without the disorder he would have been performing far beyond his peers in all areas, including communication. This is why there is a disconnect between what schools will perceive as an indication of a disorder, and what specialists, treating each child as an individual, will perceive as an indication of a disorder. The schools are basing their expectations on an average, and any child who meets that average is assumed to have nothing wrong with them. There is a question about whether high-functioning autism can really be distinguished as a separate disorder from Asperger's, because, as a spectrum disorder, there is no clear line at the high-functioning end that divides the two. J, for instance, has a diagnosis of autism rather than Aspergers largely because he exhibits classic hand-flapping, pacing, and aversion to touch. He is also unbelievably articulate for a ten-year-old, though there are long pauses in his conversation. You might find some of these links interesting: http://www.autism-help.org/points-autism-epidemic.htm http://ww1.cpa-apc.org:8080/Publicat...r/tidmarsh.asp http://www.nas.org.uk/nas/jsp/polopo...?d=1049&a=3337 http://www.wisegeek.com/what-are-sym...vel-autism.htm http://www.apa.org/monitor/dec04/definition.html http://www.med.yale.edu/chldstdy/autism/aspergers.html http://www.autism-help.org/ |
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Oh, come on...
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I know. Posting informative links that reinforce what I'm trying to convey about autism diagnosis was bad, wasn't it? My mistake.
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oh no you di'n't!
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She has a diagnosed child in her home. That trumps web searches. Based of previous discussions she knows the disability, Tiki was taking a potshot because clod didn't cut and paste the entire DSMIV.
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Cite your assertion of superior / inferior knowledge, please. How do you know?
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Clod lives with the disability. She has immersed herself completely in it. I've been away a while, maybe I missed the part where Tiki actually has any training or background in this at all. I was getting chippy because as someone who is degreed and works in the field, I work with parents of special needs kids who get talked down to constantly by folks who should have a little empathy, but instead accuse them of bad parenting. (this is all apart from the vaccine bit where Tiki seems to know a fair amount)
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It's a bit like people without kids telling you what you're doing wrong with your kids is what you mean right Griff?
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Spot on Ali.
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Tiki, I don't know if you've read the thread or not, but have a glance through this one if you have a half hour to spare. It might give you a deeper understanding of what people are trying to tell you.
I'm not trying to jump on you. I understand why you're saying the things you are and I agree with some of it, but honestly, if I were in Clods shoes, I'd find some of the suggestions you've made pretty hurtful. I'm sure you haven't meant it that way, but that's how it looks. Maybe I'm wrong about Clod's feelings, but she has a massive burden to bear at the moment, and I think you're being just a little bit inconsiderate. Of course, you can't be expected to know everything about everyone here because you're fairly new, so I just thought it might be helpful for you to know. Have a blessed day. :) |
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And the fact that Clod has an autistic kid and has researched autism as it related to her family doesn't, actually, have a lot of bearing on whether she's research autism as it relates to MY family. If we are dealing with two different points on the spectrum, why would she have read up on my end of the spectrum? I certainly haven't read up on hers. My personal experience is four years of being very close (daily caregiver, frequent overnights & weekends) with one now-ten-year-old high-functioning autistic boy who was not diagnosed for several years because the "experts" in the school refused to believe that a child could be autistic and yet be as functional as J is, one older sister with recently-diagnosed Aspergers, and one six-year-old daughter with a PDD which has not yet been pinned down. Of course, while caring for J, and during his diagnosis, I have done a lot of research on high-functioning autism. You can scream that I'm being condescending for bringing up my research and my personal opinion, or that I should just shut up because Clod knows more because one of her kids is autistic, but frankly, none of that makes any sense. I know what I've researched, and the lines between HFA and Asperger's are not very clearly defined, and there is additional complication that very intelligent children, like J, function well enough that sometimes they are not recognized by educators as having a problem, even though once in the hands of specialists they are easily diagnosed. Clod was trying to tell me that because the language development specialist at my daughter's school said that she was within averages for linguistic development, therefore she is by definition not autistic. She also said that something seemed wrong, and referred us to a neurologist. Both the pediatrician and the neurologists say she definitely has a pervasive developmental delay despite testing within average. It will take more testing to figure out what form, exactly, the PDD is in. I clearly am not doing a very good job of explaining this, but some of the links I posted did a better job. Some children evade diagnosis because their extreme intelligence causes them to appear not to have a delay, when in fact they do. There is also something distinctly odd about her father, who is an extraordinarily brilliant programmer, a former award-winning competetive jazz pianist, and a true musical savant who can play several instruments, and hear a song once and then play it perfectly... however, his ability to relate to other people is minimal, he has very little empathy, and his "life skills" kind of make me fear for his ability to make it on his own. So who knows. Maybe it's some inheritable thing. It seems like the only thing we are arguing here is whether some people with autism have in the past evaded diagnosis. I have posted my reading and my experiences which explain why I am sure they have. Clodfobble disagrees, but instead of posting an actual argument why, I'm getting "she knows better than you, so shut up". How does that help anything, or anyone? |
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Can I ask what suggestions I've made that are hurtful? All I'm trying to convey is that I find it very easy, from my experience, research, and observations, to see why and how some autistic children may not have been diagnosed in years passed, but similar children are being diagnosed now, because of higher awareness of autism and the ways it can be identified in high-intelligence, high-functioning autistic children... children who are still struggling, but have not historically gotten the recognition or help they need. I am not saying anything negative about Clodfobble's parenting. This is purely about why I think better diagnosing is adding to the increased incidence of autism. I think it's also important to keep in mind that autism as a diagnosis didn't exist at all until the 1940's, and until the 1960's it was usually diagnosed as schizophrenia! So of course I think recognition rates and correct diagnoses are higher now. |
No problem. Can I give you one more little tiny bit of advice?
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The problem you have as a new poster is not knowing the history of the older members, and I think that some of the older members could benefit from remembering that too. It's not always easy to find your place here. God knows it's taken me some time, and I've definitely had my ups and downs, with some of the same people you're currently at logger heads with, but the thing that is best to keep in mind is that the older members probably aren't going to go away or change for your benefit, and I'd say most of the forum wouldn't want them to. What I'm getting at is that you need to try and find the positive things, even about the people that annoy you, or you'll have a very bad time here, and none of us wants to see that happen. We'd all love to see you have a positive experience here, but it doesn't seem like that's what you're having lately. The best advice I have for you, and that which I've learned from personal experience, is that the status quo is not going to change for your benefit no matter how much you fight for it. It might sound harsh, but unless you can find a way to reconcile yourself to those you don't particularly like or find amusing even, you're not going to have a very good time here, and I'd ask why you'd bother if that is the case. Just try and be a bit more gentle on yourself and on others. We all want to like you, so why not let us? |
I appreciate the advice, but I'd have a lot less fun if I was just lurking around quietly, because 90% of the time this forum is dead boring for me. I hope I'm not unforgivably insulting anyone by saying that, but most forums, without interesting topics, lively debate, and a bit of controversy, become basically group Livejournals. I think there are interesting people here, and I enjoy rousing them a bit and challenging them to show off how interesting they are.
Until I can get them to talk, I don't know. I've been here a few months and I'm never going to find my place here by lurking. If I tried, I would probably just get bored reading about what a bunch of strangers had for lunch, and drift away. I could certainly do that if everyone still finds my presence unwelcome in another few months, but it's just as likely that you will have gotten used to me, I will have gotten used to you, I will have found a place, and everything will be just fine. I don't think suppressing my natural personality is going to work very well. I went through a very abrasive phase for several months after my husband left, but... this *is* the softer version of me. :( I don't want anyone else to go away, either, but if people are going to poke at me for fun, I'm going to do my level best to make it not fun for them. |
Tiki, you just basically said that you like the arguments and if there are none then it's boring.
If that's the case, then don't take offence when people get personal. Sure a bit of drama every now and then makes things a bit more lively, but not every single topic you choose to discuss surely? eta: There are always going to be shitstirers who really have nothing more to contribute than smart arse remarks. Why bother with them? It only makes it unpleasant for everyone if you lower yourself that far. |
Um, that's not actually what I said. At all. :( I said "interesting topics, lively debate, and a bit of controversy". That doesn't have to include ad-hominem and namecalling.
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Well, I submit to you that there are plenty of "interesting topics, lively debate, and a bit of controversy" around here, so I'm not really sure where you're coming from. Perhaps you have a different definition of what those things are which would explain why you don't understand how you're rubbing people up the wrong way around here.
You're talking to real people who, if you choose to stay here, you'll probably end up hoping are on your side at some stage. Anyway, that's it for me. I'm not going to lecture you any more. I was just trying to help. |
I have to confess that I probably do define those things a bit differently... I stay out of the politics threads for the most part, so in the last three months almost all of the posting activity I've seen has been of the "What I'm eating today" and "word association" variety. Silly games, and blog-type posts. Not very much lively discussion or debate. Maybe it's all in the political threads, but I have little interest in politics.
Here's a sample of the first page of threads with unread posts: On Tour in the USA What's mildly irritating you today? Explosive Diarrhea or Hyperglycemia? I will be mean to you in this thread The Last Word The brain is a vicious little bugger Vaccination & epidemic May 22, 2009: K-9 Andy Betting tips let me give you a new user title The 24 hour engorgement The 24 hour engagement. How good is your memory? Ya Stoopit Potato! May 21, 2009: Solar Stadium Ginger or Mary Ann? Word Association, part deux. Do you have stuff from your childhood? The WTF NSFW thread Innie or Outie? I finally bought my hot dog cart!!! Be a post whore! Steele's Speech to the RNC, 19 May What I Learned Today I cant believe I just ate..... |
Some of those threads may not be about what you think they're about.
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Very possible. I try to streamline my forum time by only clicking on threads that have titles suggestive that the content might be interesting to me. I'm online often, but usually only for short periods during the day.
I've looked at most of them, but not all of them. |
This thread is about Vaccination & epidemic.
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Having not read pages 11 to 15 thinking I'd find far too many more things to quote about I might have missed some information that makes my posting now inane. well maybe they're inconsequential anyway. I wanted to comment further on the over diagnosis of the 'autism spectrum'
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What book? It sounds interesting. |
@sky: If I am reading you correctly, you are touching upon some of my thoughts, that, wrapped up in this issue is the nature of our fast-paced, cookie-cutter society having become callous and indifferent towards the uniqueness of people. The Onion ran the joke, Ritalin Cures Next Picasso.
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exactly..I love that sarcasm. To watch tv like all the normal kids what an acievment! does anything profound come from mediocricy? And frankly I haven't met any special education teachers, except from State schools that actually understood that. |
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I have found that since pdd-nos is so differential some teachers will grasp onto any text book definition they can find so they can approach these kids in a way they understand without really understanding the true nature of the kid. Quote:
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much more interesting than the puplic service announcement was |
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http://www.bmj.com/cgi/content/extract/330/7483/112-d A lot of disorders, such as ADHD, OCD, and depression, are sharply on the rise, and it's possible (perhaps even likely) that there are environmental factors, but I also suspect that diagnostic tools are simply getting a lot more refined and more people who would formerly not have been diagnosed at all, now are. |
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ETA: Just to make sure the reference is all in one post: the current prevalence rate as of 2009 is 67 per 10,000. |
I love how if just one person is sufficiently obsessed with learning about something,
the internet lets us all know as much about that thing as that person has time to type. |
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Tiki, seriously. Come on now. If I am typing out large passages from highly technical books about autism, do you really think I've never read the webmd page on the subject? The detailed history of autism has entire chapters dedicated to it, in multiple books that I have read. Want to post some wikipedia links for me too, and get it out of your system? We're beyond general definitions at this point in the discussion--do you, or do you not, have evidence of a study that can prove the existence of the "hidden horde?" Because it is the holy grail of researchers who believe the same things you do. They are increasingly desperate to prove that autism has been with us all along. The first one who could would be shouting it from the rooftops.
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The crown falls deathly ill... silent I mean silent.
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... well, because. |
If a 200-word webMD article constitutes the history of autism from your perspective, then perhaps you ought to consider expanding your sources. The article mentions Leo Kanner in passing--I have read excerpts of Kanner's actual notes from his actual cases when he first began seeing autistic individuals in his practice. My books do not contradict the body of knowledge about autism, because they are for the most part nothing but collections of the body of knowledge about autism. They put all the studies in one accessible place, and point out methodological flaws where they see them. It is the current body of knowledge itself which contradicts what the CDC and various other institutions are telling the public. Either they can back up their assertions with study data, or they can't. And so far, they can't.
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In order for there to be new levels of diagnosis of autism, there would have to be reduced diagnoses of other things... that would spring out if we had the right numbers to look at, but the numbers are hard to find... but surely other people have looked at numbers.
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You'll see it, pages 24 through 41. I already posted a photo of just one of the charts showing that other diagnoses have held steady.
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OK cool. That gets us an awfully long way.
What I think is interesting about your graph is how it has no sudden shifts, it's all just up and up, slowly over time. It's quite even. There are no bumps in your graph, therefore the introduction of one single vaccine, or change in one particular vaccine, is probably not the cause. If it was, there would be a spike 2 years after the change, followed by a plateau once the percentage of affected children had been diagnosed. Would you agree? |
That graph only shows the increase from 1994 to 2002. The other graphs show a steady level starting in the 1960s, then a bit of a slope upward starting around 1971, a more significant jump up in 1979, a huge spike upward after 1984, and another increase in slope after 1987.
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It is interesting to note that as recently as 2007 the CDC used to post historical vaccination schedules on their site. They have now taken them down. But post #2 from this page is a basic rundown of the years that certain vaccines were added:
http://www.mothering.com/discussions...d.php?t=655582 1984 is when the aggressive addition of new vaccines every few years began. |
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see...i noticed that TGRR came to the defense of his friend Tiki. |
say what now
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Humorous: Jenny Mccarthy
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Jenny McCarthy is Amanda Peete. These are really difficult questions with spokesmodels randomly choosing up sides. It is like Al Gore being the face of Global Warming. His (lack of) credibility probably shouldn't be part of the conversation, but the science is so difficult people look for a short-cut finding someone they trust to do their thinking for them. We've had too damn much side-choosing over the last several years, hopefully we can get at the truth. If we cannot sort the science ourselves, at the least, we should put our trust in folks with a history of intelligence and intellectual honesty. Look for respected people who change sides.
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