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Pamela 01-19-2014 03:36 PM

Darnit, that video STILL didn't post right. Third time's the charm!

I must have posted the entire URL again.


sexobon 01-21-2014 08:40 PM

How long is this stage of your transformation going to last?

At what point do we say RIP Brian; or, do we ever?

Pamela 01-23-2014 04:36 PM

I am at that awkward stage.

Living authentically but not fooling anyone. :D

I expect it to last another two years. One to wend my way through the Byzantine and bigoted Texas court system to change my ID and another to lose enough weight to qualify for surgery.

After that, if you call me Brian, I will stab you in the eye.

slang 02-08-2014 02:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pamela (Post 890634)
I am at that awkward stage.

Living authentically but not fooling anyone. :D ...

After that, if you call me Brian, I will stab you in the eye.

No need to stab me in the eye, friend. You've taught me much here in this thread.

It's unlikely that I'll see you again in real life but for those following the same path, I'll surely grant them respect and sensitivity as I meet them.

And have an understanding of the whole process that I would not have if not for knowing you.

Little hinges swing big doors.

Pamela 02-08-2014 08:56 PM

Why, that was a very nice thing to say, slang! I really appreciate it and I'm glad you learned something. My brothers and sisters in PI will thank you.

And I was ony joking about stabbing. :D

Pamela 02-08-2014 09:00 PM

Does anyone else have any questions or thoughts?

I can't believe you all are letting this precious opportunity to get inside the head of a TS safely go by! There is so much I can share! Can you tell that my support channel is slow right now? LOL

OH, if UT doesn't mind, my channel is on IRC, irc.bondage.com channel name is #Transgender_Cafe. I can often be found there in the evenings. I have friends there too, if you just want to chat or ask something.

xoxoxoBruce 02-08-2014 10:08 PM

I know it's in your genes/head, pre-programed and all that, but for the life of me I can't figure out why you'd want to subject yourself to all the shit chicks suffer. You've got bigger balls than me, Pam, I'm in awe. :notworthy

monster 02-08-2014 10:34 PM

What questions do you think we should have/be asking, Pamela? What would you like us to ask? What do you feel we should know but don't feel comfortable telling us until we ask?

Clodfobble 02-09-2014 07:34 AM

It's a case of unknown unknowns... :)


xoxoxoBruce 02-09-2014 08:00 AM

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The picture I posted last night is gone. Maybe I was dreaming. :bonk:

Clodfobble 02-09-2014 08:18 AM

That's a cool campaign. I wonder if they really go a whole mile in those things...

monster 02-09-2014 08:46 AM

Never mind walking in them, try dancing in them. Backwards. :rolleyes:

Sundae 02-09-2014 12:27 PM

With feathers.

Pamela 02-09-2014 04:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce (Post 892219)
I know it's in your genes/head, pre-programed and all that, but for the life of me I can't figure out why you'd want to subject yourself to all the shit chicks suffer. You've got bigger balls than me, Pam, I'm in awe. :notworthy


Ah yes, male privilege. They get to wear anything, not shave, "do" their nails with a pocketknife, etc

I won't say that I don't miss that, but I do. But chicks get lazy too. We just are more circumspect about it.

I don't wear uncomfortable clothes. But you'd be surprised how comfortable most of our clothes are, once you get used to the different sensations. The hormones really woke up my skin. Suddenly, it felt alive! And it began transmitting everything! Shirts that used to be soft and comfy suddenly were scratchy and stiff. Even the sensation of air passing over it began to register more than before. Might be the lack of hair, might be the new conductivity, I dunno. But I can feel EVERYTHING! And I *like* it!

monster 02-09-2014 05:05 PM

I'm not entirely convinced you're speaking for the majority of women there.


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