I don't think marraige should be pushed either way. Gays should stop "Poor-me"-ing and straight people should stop Gay-bashing.

It is not being pushed and no one is "poor-me-ing" they just want to be treated equally by the law, as they are equal.
Bigot.

I still think that anyone should be allowed to enter into a legal contract, regardless of sexual orientation or gender.

I also think that anyone should be able to live with each other, boink each other and call each other "sugarbuns", and have it sanctified in the eyes of their chosen deity or lack thereof.

The two things just should't have anything to do with each other, unless the aforementioned individuals decide to have it that way.