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good one

You are not alone. Just seems not right to me.

I don't know 'bout y'all, but I like to dive into the bush:yum:

BEFORE:

AFTER:

Stop that, you're making me all tingly.

oral is much better on both ends when both ends are shaved...... at least for me and my man... when he is shaved its much easier for me to just ...:)... get him wet and slippery and have fun....

Im happy I saw this thread, I just had a conversation with the SO last night. He and I have sex probably 4-10 times a month...often we will have it once and then not for two weeks then three nights in a row... whatever... I dont have much of a libido... and we have a very... routine way of having sex. And personally, I enjoy that. I have no libido... and often in the beginning of the relationship I would have sex with him when I really didnt want to, and I tell ya, it is the worst thing in the world. So... once I ended up in tears once or twice,and we had discussed the situation multiple times, he told me he would never initiate again. Now that sucks, but its my own fault, and I have to deal with it.

So now, I just feel guilty all the time about how little sex I give him (when I know he would like it pretty much daily)... but its very easy for me to just not initiate....its really bad. Although, sometimes Id be perfectly fine just tearing his clothes off, but I cant tell if he is interested... so last night I told him that...and he said he is always interested...hehe...so I guess I will try to initiate more... I just dont want to loose him because of my low libido... I ask him what he would do if it was always liek this, if he could stay with me....but he just says it will get better, never acknowledging the fact that it might not... that kinda sucks...

Got a question though. I didnt read all 55 pages of this, so it may have been answered... Have any of you women with a low libido gotten good advice from a doctor?

Welcome to the Cellar, Munchkin. My advice: break out of the routine. Try something new. Most people worry about getting off rather than enjoying it; so, try enjoying it and not worrying about that. When you're not under pressure to perform you can have fun.

Thank you...

have a consult with your GYN about your hormone levels and have them tested. perhaps you are low on the "T."

Will do... Ive been putting that off for a while, my mom tells me to get my levels tested...but also told me to never take testosterone... but yeah.. I guess I should get over my juvenile fear of the gyn and go... even though I HATE it...

thanksya

My first wife did the shave thing once. It was fun, but I can't say that I was driven excessively wild with desire by the bareness of it all. I can say, though, that I did in fact have the whole prepubescent thing lurking in the back of my mind, and I definitely did not find that stimulating. She was also extremely put off by the regrowth process, as was I...boning stubble is not a real pleasant experience.

It does, however, make the little man in the boat a much easier target.

That's a new one to me. :lol:

i think my wife and i may be the opposite of some of what i've read here. i'm happy to have sex only once a week or so, but she likes it every day.

i am older than her, though, and that's a contributing factor, i am sure.

i just can't keep up the frequency of our early days together (every day at least once). i still LOVE it, but i think i'm just at a little slower pace than her.

oh...and...BTW...we don't shave, but we both keep it trimmed. very nice......