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Lamplighter 10-25-2011 10:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Undertoad (Post 766531)
<snip> As far as our two above money-grubbers, <snip>

I bet we won't see those two together in one descriptive posting again !

DanaC 10-25-2011 11:34 AM

I never said debt was a turn off to me. I just conceded the point that some might find debt a turnoff, whilst offering up a caveat about different kinds of debt.

Personally, couldn't give a flying fuck about it and never have.

But if the quest is for a serious long-term relationship then it's worth thinking about what the other partner might be looking from such a relationship. Stability may well be something many potential partners are looking for, and debt that isn't being dealt with could potentially make someone look less of a stable option.

Undertoad 10-25-2011 12:08 PM

:D this yank is yankin' yer chain :D

Sundae 10-25-2011 12:28 PM

Damn, that's why I'm single.
No money, no house and no ambition.

Still, I'm not on benefits, not in £5k debt, love my job and had an interview today.
So things are a lot better than they have been :)

classicman 10-25-2011 12:33 PM

$10,000 in student loan debt is minimal.
College seniors who graduated in 2009 carried an average of $24000 in student loan debt.

HungLikeJesus 10-25-2011 08:37 PM

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Originally Posted by monster (Post 766517)
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And PH45 has some VERY sound advice about hobbies and interests.

I thought you said hobos.

Aliantha 10-25-2011 08:43 PM

I don't think $10k debt is that much, but then, our mortgage is pretty high. If it were only 10k we'd be pretty happy.

Aliantha 10-25-2011 08:43 PM

Fucking deliriously so in fact. :)

monster 10-25-2011 10:28 PM



just see how sexually attractive these rich people are! :)

classicman 11-06-2011 08:02 PM

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Stormieweather 11-07-2011 01:29 PM

Eh...get comfortable being with yourself, in your own skin, doing your own thing...and then someone else might find you interesting enough to want to get involved with you.

In other words, stop looking for a partner to make you happy and start enjoying the life you have.


And Classic...that montage is just cooooold.

ZenGum 11-09-2011 07:55 PM

He's done a good job making those signs.

By the trees and traffic, I think that is in Australia.

HungLikeJesus 11-09-2011 09:25 PM

Yes, but then he had to live with her for six more days. I bet that was fun.

footfootfoot 11-09-2011 10:43 PM

One becomes ok with being single by first getting married.

BigV 11-09-2011 11:41 PM

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Originally Posted by footfootfoot (Post 771513)
One becomes ok with being single by first getting married.

ouch. fucking ouch.


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