It seems to be a difficult point to get across. Now, let's all say it together...

(Believe me, we'll ALL be much happier.) ;)

I didn't know those things were "smudge-proof" Shawnee......LOL! Why do people keep trying then?

Slow and steady wins the race!

There are different types of orgasms. The one from clitoral stimulation is different from a g-spot orgasm or vaginal, and all of those are different from the kind I have when I'm on top. I can have two different kinds of clitoral orgasm, one vaginal and one clitoral (and can have them simultaneously, when I'm lucky). I did not have (and had never had) any orgasms for many years, although sex was enjoyable. The turning point was when I started buying toys (I'd stayed away because so many people said it ruined sex with a partner). I found out that what turns me on is not in/out motion, but circular. I discovered that the left side of my clitoris is more sensitive than the right. And I overcame my self-conciousness at letting go enough to tip 'over the edge'. I've also found that the more I self-stimulate, the easier it is to orgasm with a partner. If I go a long time without taking care of myself, it becomes nearly impossible with a partner. The partner makes a huge difference too, as well as my emotional connection to him.

Sorry if this is too much information :o .

I am not able to have flings since I was past 23 years of age. Of course sex only gets better the older you get so my emotions tend to get wrapped up in sex. I know it's cliche`to get love mixed up with sex but for me if I am in love or love I can get so involved mind,body and soul. Sex without a mutual emotional connection is rote and although I can do it I would rather not.
My last relationship was like that.
( side note)
I thought we would make better friends but he insisted he cared more than he did and how could I tell it wasn't so? It was in his kiss. ya baby

exactly


Oh, oh, oh, honey !
Squeeze him tight!
Find out what you wanna know!
promise love, and if it really is,
It's there in his kiss!

I just wanted to pop in and let everyone know that I am no longer qualified to be involved with this thread.

I hope your happy!!!!

Oh my god, you lost your vagina?!

Did you check the lost and found?

No Clod. I lost your vagina.

Sorry.

:)

What exactly un-qualifies you?

er . . . what's the question?

Sex threads are good.

How can you be unqualified for sex? Unless you're underage of course, and I'm pretty sure that even though some of us may sometimes wish it, that means that once you're qualified, there's no going back.

Now that I think about it...I'm going to disqualify others while I'm here.........

Oooh. Pure evil.

:)