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Cloud 03-14-2009 02:33 PM

Poll for the Guys: Are your ear(s) pierced?
 
Just curious about the general population and Cellarites.

Lots of guys in the past several decades have gotten their ears pierced at one time or another. Of course I'm involved in all that, and almost all of the guys in the body modification world I talk to have lobe piercings, but I got to thinking about how many men pierced their ear(s) once than gave it up.

Stress Puppy 03-14-2009 02:53 PM

Yessum. I've had cartilage piercings, an industrial, and two lobe piercings in each ear. I stretched the bottom lobe piercings to 0 guage, but then took all the jewelry out. Now all but the stretched holes (hehe) are closed up.

jinx 03-14-2009 02:59 PM

Do you have a pic Stress? I always wondered what the stretched out lobes looked like when people got sick of them.

Cloud 03-14-2009 03:00 PM

Oh, I can find you a pic probably.

ETA: okay I can't find one handy. I could show you mine--they're at 8 gauge, which isn't all that big. Without jewelry, there's a definite hole there, though.

classicman 03-14-2009 03:40 PM

I have none and don't think I'll ever have any. Just not my thing. One son has a pierced lobe he went a long time without anything there, yet recently started wearing a stud again.

monster 03-14-2009 06:25 PM

I've heard sheldon wears studs ....out.

Beestie 03-14-2009 07:02 PM

Earrings are for pirates and sailors.

Way back when, the tradition was that sailor/pirate buddies would buy a pair of earrings and each would keep one. When one of the friends died, the other would start wearing the remaining earring.

Rhianne 03-14-2009 07:29 PM

Is "sailor/pirate buddies" a euphemism for 'gay lovers'?

Young men, all that time away from sea with few or no girls, it seems only natural that relationships would form.

Homosexuality was punishible by death in the British Navy at one point - was it Churchill who described the Navy using the phrase "rum, sodomy and the lash"?

lumberjim 03-14-2009 07:43 PM

i had my left earlobe pierced in the 8th grade. I was 13. I kept it in until 11th grade or so, and then i let it heal. I can still feel a bump there. I'm over that. I don't wear jewelry per se. just my wedding ring and wristwatch......

Radar 03-14-2009 08:29 PM

Had the left ear pierced in high school and shortly thereafter stopped wearing an earing. About 18 years later when I met my current wife, she noticed the hole (which had long since closed), took off her earing, and shoved it through.

Mmmmm ... good times.

I don't even wear my wedding ring or a watch anymore.

jinx 03-14-2009 08:35 PM

I didn't wear a nose ring for about 5 years, and the hole closed up but stayed clearly visible, so I had it redone. I wear a gold bone in it, and my wedding band, that's it. I love my wedding band... just a big, fat, but totally plain gold band.

lumberjim 03-14-2009 08:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jinx (Post 545286)
I didn't wear a nose ring for about 5 years, and the hole closed up but stayed clearly visible, so I had it redone. I wear a gold bone in it, and my wedding band, that's it. I love my wedding band... just a big, fat, but totally plain gold band.

me too....i'm almost glad i lost the first one

Radar 03-14-2009 08:53 PM

My wife and I never had matching rings. I bought a plain gold ring. I got too fat to keep wearing it and I really just didn't want to because she never wears hers. She doesn't wear it because she does nails and works with a lot of chemicals she things will mess a ring up.

She loves jewelry. I've given her diamond bracelets, necklaces, ear rings, etc.

I'd like it if we got very simple matching gold bands, though she likes diamonds so she probably wouldn't go for it. A nice platinum or titanium band would be cool too.

rfndong 03-14-2009 09:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rhianne (Post 545277)
Is "sailor/pirate buddies" a euphemism for 'gay lovers'?

Young men, all that time away from sea with few or no girls, it seems only natural that relationships would form.

Homosexuality was punishible by death in the British Navy at one point - was it Churchill who described the Navy using the phrase "rum, sodomy and the lash"?

A submarine leaves port with 120 men and returns with 60 couples.

And no, it wasn't.
http://www.winstonchurchill.org/i4a/...cfm?pageid=112

SteveDallas 03-14-2009 09:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jinx (Post 545205)
Do you have a pic Stress? I always wondered what the stretched out lobes looked like when people got sick of them.

There's a guy who works at our public library who has those.. the discs are almost an inch diameter. I've heard more than one person in line asking him about them. :eek:

Stress Puppy 03-14-2009 09:33 PM

No pics ATM, and I'm heading out, but maybe tomorrow.

monster 03-14-2009 10:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Radar (Post 545290)
She doesn't wear it because she does nails and works with a lot of chemicals she things will mess a ring up.

You can reassure her that gold is fairly high ranking on the noble scale and so is not going to get messed up by the chemicals she uses. Of course, if her ring is copper, then that is is very reactive, so it is wise not to wear it while working.

My mom always said that she was allergic to gold -like Sophia Loren.

Rhianne 03-14-2009 11:05 PM

Thank you for that link rfndong!

Radar 03-14-2009 11:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rfndong (Post 545292)
A submarine leaves port with 120 men and returns with 60 couples.

And no, it wasn't.
http://www.winstonchurchill.org/i4a/...cfm?pageid=112


I served in the USN. I think the gay rumors started because of the cracker jack uniforms. I can tell you the only gay man I ever met in the Navy was in basic training and he got booted out.

There were a lot of gay women though.

Radar 03-14-2009 11:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by monster (Post 545311)
You can reassure her that gold is fairly high ranking on the noble scale and so is not going to get messed up by the chemicals she uses. Of course, if her ring is copper, then that is is very reactive, so it is wise not to wear it while working.

My mom always said that she was allergic to gold -like Sophia Loren.


Is white gold really gold?

lumberjim 03-15-2009 12:07 AM

white gold is gold mixed with nickel

Pie 03-15-2009 12:09 AM

My dad had both his ears pierced when he was three or four years old -- it was the done thing for wealthy boys in India.

Cloud 03-15-2009 01:30 AM

most people are not allergic to gold, but rather to the alloys added to make it suitable for jewelry; could be nickle, but can be other metals, like palladium.

And Pie--that is very interesting. Very! If you have any more information about that custom, I'd love to have it. Oddly, among the most visited pages on my blog is a post about Indian nose piercing. Can't figure out why, exactly. Are these Indian people visiting my blog looking for solid info, or what? Wish I knew more about that. More research!

capnhowdy 03-15-2009 07:13 AM

Got my ear done in high school. I had almost forgotten about it. After not wearing an earring for all these years, (going on 40) the hole is still there. I still have my old earrings. Maybe I'll wear one to work one day just to freak my cow orkers out.

kerosene 03-15-2009 09:11 AM

I voted for my husband.

He had his ears pierced some 5 years ago. He occasionally wears hoops in them, when he can find the earrings.

As far as wedding bands...mine is a very simple gold ring with nothing on it. I use to have a ring with an aquamarine and the stone fell out of the setting. Since then, I have worn the gold band. I like it because it is simple and doesn't get caught on stuff. I don't have to worry about losing a stone, either. He has a titanium band. He needs the durability. Every piece of jewelry he has owned gets roughed up, too much to last.

Stress Puppy 03-15-2009 02:26 PM

Here you go.

The hole in my right ear. You can see the tiny hole left from my previously 10-guage loops. This one used to be 0 guage.
http://img231.imageshack.us/img231/4963/hole.th.jpg

With a bic pen ink insert. Not sure what guage that is, but I figure everyone has a bic pen and can look at the ink part for comparison. Interestingly, a full bic pen used to fit through there.

http://img523.imageshack.us/img523/8251/hole2.th.jpg

I haven't had any jewelry in any of my piercings for at least four years now.

Cloud 03-15-2009 03:48 PM

what was the "some other answer"?

Stress Puppy; you could probably buy a flesh-colored plug to make the hole less noticeable, if you wanted

jinx 03-15-2009 06:37 PM

Thanks Stress... much less noticeable than I would have though.

Elspode 03-15-2009 09:16 PM

I have a single piercing...left earlobe. For the past several years, I have worn only a simple small gold hoop, but I used to wear different stuff in it, mostly wires. My favorite piece is a tiny hunk of nickel iron meteorite dangling on a tiny piece of chain on a stud.

ZenGum 03-15-2009 09:56 PM

Nothing stuck in my body. I figure it is like anything natural ... sticking big metal spikes into it does not add to the beauty of it. IMHO, YMMV etc.

Also, check with an acupuncturist for advice on places they would never pierce: earlobe, eyebrow, nose, nostril, lip, tongue, nipple, navel, genitals... pretty much everywhere that is currently done for fashion. (Not saying that I "believe" in acupuncture, but this is a fun way to stir-up new-age bodymodders!)

lookout123 03-15-2009 11:21 PM

I haven't worn them since my shortly after Lil Lookout was born but my left ear has 5 holes and my right has three.

sugarpop 03-15-2009 11:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by monster (Post 545264)
I've heard sheldon wears studs ....out.

heh

Stress Puppy 03-16-2009 07:19 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cloud (Post 545497)
what was the "some other answer"?

Stress Puppy; you could probably buy a flesh-colored plug to make the hole less noticeable, if you wanted

I kinda like having the holes.


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