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subcurious 12-31-2011 02:00 AM

A little lost
 
i thought this was a site where a sub could explore and maybe ask questions... but i did not see anywhere i could do that?

Sundae 12-31-2011 07:26 AM

We have some old threads regarding dom and sub themes.
The majority of posters now would not be able to give you personal or specialised advice.

You are welcome here, but in truth there are other sites you will find far more useful and helpful.
Previously suggested:
Quote:

Check out http://www.scarleteen.com/

Go down to the bottom of the page and type BDSM into the search box - you'll get some information from that point on. Scarleteen is a well known and well respected site that obviously caters to a younger population, and most importantly offers a sex positive outlook.
And from another Dwellar:
Quote:

I also love Scarleteen, and found this gem there recently. Although it does not pertain exclusively to D/s interactions, it is absolutely good advice nonetheless. Good for you to follow and good for you to watch others follow, in fact, moreso the latter than the former.

Driver's Ed for the Sexual Superhighway: Navigating Consent
We're a friendly bunch here, but BDSM is not our area of expertise, just a previous discussion.

Good luck, espeically if this is your first foray,
Sundae.

Sperlock 12-31-2011 10:23 AM

You may also check out fetlife.com

BigV 12-31-2011 11:15 AM

Hello subcurious,

Welcome to the cellar! What kinds of questions do you have? I'd be happy to talk about this subject with you.

BrianR 12-31-2011 11:26 AM

Me too. I have many years of involvement in the leather scene, although I no longer do so.

maineiac04631 12-31-2011 04:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sperlock (Post 784070)
You may also check out fetlife.com

I second this advice.

Gravdigr 12-31-2011 04:16 PM

Question #1: Do you own a spatula?

Spexxvet 01-04-2012 12:40 PM

Question #2: GET DOWN ON YOUR KNEES, BITCH!

BigV 01-04-2012 12:43 PM

so, SO not the first two questions.

:facepalm:

Spexxvet 01-04-2012 12:49 PM

I asked my friend, a masochist, why she stayed with her sadistic husband. "Beats me", she replied.

And that's when I fainted.;)

BigV 01-04-2012 01:44 PM

very LOL.

what did the masochist say to the sadist?

"beat me, beat me"

then the sadist said

"no"

ZenGum 01-05-2012 07:18 PM

A submissive lesbian named Kroom,
took a masochistic homosexual to her room
where they argued a lot
about who would do what
and how, and with which, and to whom.

DucksNuts 01-06-2012 05:20 AM

Bugger they left, a few of you could have helped and I learn soooo much more about you guys when this kind of thing comes along.

BigV 01-06-2012 11:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DucksNuts (Post 785541)
Bugger they left, a few of you could have helped and I learn soooo much more about you guys when this kind of thing comes along.

so.

You're curious too? What questions are on your mind, Ducks?

Gravdigr 01-07-2012 02:46 AM

Please tell us you have a spatula.

monster 01-08-2012 09:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DucksNuts (Post 785541)
Bugger they left, a few of you could have helped and I learn soooo much more about you guys when this kind of thing comes along.

Um...

I saw two threads with useful links, two offers of advice/support, and one more supportive post before any moment of silliness ensued. And there was no nastiness whatever. I guess Australian BeesInTheBonnet are also bigger, nastier and more poisonous.....


BTW why do I have to hit a submit button to post here? I want to have the option of hitting a dominate button.

glatt 01-09-2012 07:42 AM

I think Ducks is saying that she learns that some Dwellars have hobbies and areas of expertise they have been keeping quiet.

monster 01-09-2012 07:50 AM

Oh maybe, in which case, I apologise. I still want a dominate button, though.

Rrrraven 01-10-2012 10:02 PM

1 Attachment(s)
Quote:

Originally Posted by monster (Post 786223)
I still want a dominate button, though.

Will this work?

Attachment 36618

ZenGum 01-10-2012 10:06 PM

How do you get down on your knees?



You don't. You get down on a duck.

Thanks folks, I'll be here all week, try the wombat casserole.

footfootfoot 01-10-2012 11:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ZenGum (Post 786660)
How do you get down on your knees?


Thanks folks, I'll be here all week, try the wombat casserole.

How can you tell the head goose in a flock?

The one with down on it's knees.

Does the wombat casserole come with chips?

DucksNuts 01-11-2012 03:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by glatt (Post 786219)
I think Ducks is saying that she learns that some Dwellars have hobbies and areas of expertise they have been keeping quiet.

Thanks, Glatt :-) I love that you get me

glatt 01-11-2012 07:17 AM

:)

footfootfoot 01-11-2012 08:47 AM

It's not fair. Glatt gets all the babes


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