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JBKlyde 02-18-2012 12:26 PM

Abuse (Lets Deal With it)
 
Well to be honest I don't trust myself around women that is why I don't even try to find a girl friend. When I was a kid I was subject to abuse from my dad and I credit myself to liberating my mother from the strong hold of my fathers abuse. The Irony now everyone thinks I'm some monster tor-wards women because of some of the ridiculousness I've verbally done on the net. While yes I have crossed the line, NO I don't think I'm an abuser. However I don't think I even know how to have a relationship so I'm just gonna stay single till I find a woman who is stronger than me who can keep me in check an keep me in love.

qcc??
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Sundae 02-18-2012 01:23 PM

Quid pro quo

JBKlyde 02-18-2012 01:49 PM

fefe fi fofo fefe fi fo fo, I don't know no fefe.

Undertoad 02-18-2012 02:40 PM

Did you ever get therapy specifically for the abuse?

JBKlyde 02-18-2012 02:51 PM

Yes, I did when my parents got divorced my mom sent me to a therapist.

Undertoad 02-18-2012 05:40 PM

That's good! Do you feel it was helpful?

JBKlyde 02-18-2012 06:19 PM

The only thing that I got out of it was that "the grass wasn't any greener on the other side".

sexobon 02-18-2012 08:21 PM

Are you saying that you were no better off after your parents got divorced?

JBKlyde 02-19-2012 10:04 AM

I dunno they separated when I was 15 and I was free as a 'wild child' I got away with things I would have never gotten away with if my dad was around..

sexobon 02-19-2012 06:52 PM

What caused that situation to eventually change?

JBKlyde 02-19-2012 07:37 PM

My Dad went back to school and studied construction engineering and left my mom and us to fend for ourselves.. she kept the house and went broke.. he stayed away and now he works as an engineer.. The older we got the more ridiculous it got but when I flunked out of college It was a very humbling experience and I realized that family was more important than money so now I just unconditional forgive them both.

Where's My 2 dollars??

sexobon 02-19-2012 08:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JBKlyde (Post 796559)
... Where's My 2 dollars??

Here's your tip:
A
Better
Understanding
Serves
Everyone

JBKlyde 02-20-2012 02:12 PM

Fear
Love
Anger
Sad
Happy

all other emotions can be derived from that.

sexobon 02-20-2012 02:44 PM

Which is jealously/envy derived from?

infinite monkey 02-20-2012 03:26 PM

Fear.


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