Cheating even though you are happy.....
 

So as of late i have been getting a lot of attention from the women at my job. I work in a huge building with over 600 people and the majority are women. And I have been getting all kinds of offers to go bump uglies. I have even been offered a room paid by the girl all taken care of all I have to do is show. Problem is I am married(second time around) and I am happy with what i got. But its just so temping you know the thought of something new the strange if you will. Any thoughts on this......

"Trust is a one-time only offer"
-- Wolf

If you value your marriage and the vows you took, you will do the right thing.

And stop sending out the vibes that these offers are welcome.

Why is being married a problem?
Talk to your wife about this, it's important if you want to stay married.

Yes i know trust is one time only offer and i do value the vows that i took and i have not done anything. I dont believe I am sending out those vibes at least i dont think so. I do maintenance all around the building and help alot of them out when they have any issues with their desks etc. But i am just nice you know. I phrased that wrong being married is not the problem i just wanted to say that i am not single is all.

Thoughts? yeah. cheaters are scum. If you want to continue to be happy--don't.

If you've let the conversation get to the point that you know the room is paid for, you are sending out vibes.

If you keep these kinds of thoughts/conversations from your wife you are already cheating. If you're uncomfortable bringing this topic up with your wife, there's a reason for it.

Communication is the foundation of trust.

Either discuss & invite the wife (if you are into that, I'm not) or be glad for that which you have.

BTW - Have you looked at your wife lately? No, I mean really looked at her.
Yehhhh like that. now - WHAT ARE YOU FUCKIN NUTS?

Don't be an asshole - How would you feel if she did it to you? Take that into consideration and then ... Don't be an asshole.

I do want to continue to be happy and i have never cheated ever not even on a girlfriend. And it wasnt a conversation. It was an email stating that it would all be taken care of. I had said hi on occassions to this woman before but never did actually have a conversation. The email came out of nowhere.

No im not into "that" im not much for sharing. You know what classic i havent done that in a while. I believe you are right!!! And I dont want to be "that Guy" And im definetely not an asshole and i would prob feel like shiat if she were doing that to me. i think its just taking me for a ride because i have never gotten attention like this before.

Hmm Kinda ironic that i just said that i didnt want to be "that guy" and my screen name is that guy. Damn it!...epic fail.

So, ahh, what job is this? I might need to change careers.

I hate it when I accidently send the wrong person an e-mail............So I always check it before I send it at least 3 times........Not everyone does that.

Cheating while already happy with the person you're with? Sounds like a fast track to unhappy.

Do you send it three times just to make sure they got it? :p