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anonymous 03-11-2010 11:27 AM

Suicidal friend
 
How to save a friend you suspect might be considering suicide.

wolf 03-11-2010 12:06 PM

Any particular reason you're choosing to post this now, and anonymously?

anonymous 03-11-2010 03:31 PM

For anyone who's feeling down, it's nice to remember that there's people who care. Lots of people have been down, this past winter. To better days!

Datalyss 03-11-2010 03:52 PM

Anon is correct, wolfey. The randomness of this thread might be questionable, but it may be helpful to some.

lumberjim 03-11-2010 04:26 PM

I suspect that wolf may know who posted it, and is concerned. Assuming it is a regular dwellar, and assuming that the typical 'friend' misdirection, concern would be a logical response.

that said...If anyone is contemplating suicide, i would like to recommend the alternative: Go Hobo.

monster 03-11-2010 04:38 PM

Also, wolf is a mental health professional.

Datalyss 03-11-2010 04:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lumberjim (Post 640312)
I suspect that wolf may know who posted it, and is concerned. Assuming it is a regular dwellar, and assuming that the typical 'friend' misdirection, concern would be a logical response.

On the other hand, it may be legit, and anonymous might be just be a clever username.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jimmy 2 shoes
that said...If anyone is contemplating suicide, i would like to recommend the alternative: Go Hobo.

And my reccommendation: Just Don't. I like Ozzy's music too, but suicide is never the solution.

limey 03-11-2010 05:01 PM

Yes. There are people who care. Please, if you are feeling suicidal, reach out for help. From your friends, your family, a suicide helpline. Please.

DanaC 03-11-2010 05:14 PM

@Datalyss: 'Anonymous' is a community use username. Any of us can log onto the anon account and post with it.

Datalyss 03-11-2010 05:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DanaC (Post 640324)
@Datalyss: 'Anonymous' is a community use username. Any of us can log onto the anon account and post with it.

That doesn't seem like a good idea to me.

DanaC 03-11-2010 05:35 PM

Why not?

monster 03-11-2010 08:13 PM

We're grown ups here, we don't abuse such things.

Datalyss 03-11-2010 08:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DanaC (Post 640328)
Why not?

Any spammer could sign on as anonymous, and go wild.

monster 03-11-2010 09:00 PM

nope, they couldn't.

classicman 03-11-2010 09:35 PM

Focus on the real issue, Datalyss. Start your on thread if you wat to discuss why certain things are done the way they are here.

It has been a terribly difficult year for me, thoughts come and go. Some good some bad. Personally I try to think outside myself and about what my loved ones would go through if I did something like that. I talk to them. I keep in touch. I realize how much I am wanted and needed. . . on I go. Sometimes for me sometimes for them. The pendulum swings.


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