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Spexxvet 12-30-2010 10:18 PM

My father
 
He told stories about how, as a child, he followed the horse-drawn ice truck, as it delivered ice in North Philadelphia. He was the sonar man on a minesweeper that swept Nagasaki harbor at the end of WWII. After the service he graduated from Temple University. He taught elementary Phys Ed for almost 40 years. He ALWAYS had a second job, and a summer job. He was handy, generous, kind, and a goofball. After a long illness in 2000/2001, he used a walker or wheelchair. For the last couple of years he has not known his family's names, who they were, and sometime where he was. Last week he kicked a nursing home aid in the chest. Yesterday he died of pneumonia as I held his hand.

anonymous 12-30-2010 10:19 PM

So very sorry for your loss.
So glad you have such great memories of a great father.

Clodfobble 12-30-2010 10:20 PM

Sorry for your loss, Spexx. :(

Shawnee123 12-30-2010 10:22 PM

I'm sorry Spexx. He sounds like he was a wonderful person. What experiences!

BigV 12-30-2010 11:10 PM

Awww Spexx.

I'm so sorry to hear this sad news. Your memories you shared with us of him are wonderful. Though his body is gone, clearly he lives in your spirit, and always will.:comfort:

Undertoad 12-30-2010 11:12 PM

Goodnight sir, you did your job on this earth beautifully.

Lamplighter 12-30-2010 11:14 PM

Yes Spec, I'm sorry for your loss
Your brief post shows a deep relationship with your Dad, and it's good that you were with him at the end.
A career of 40 years teaching is wonderful thing...a life well spent

xoxoxoBruce 12-30-2010 11:28 PM

Sorry Spexx, I'm familiar with how hard the not knowing names, and striking out at the Aids, is on the whole family. He's found his peace, I hope you can find yours.

casimendocina 12-30-2010 11:56 PM

Sorry to hear about the loss of your dad Spexx.
Saw this on a card and really liked it: "to live on in the hearts of those we loved is not to die."

Big Sarge 12-30-2010 11:59 PM

Sorry for your loss. He must have been quite a man

Sundae 12-31-2010 05:07 AM

Very sorry to hear that Spexx.
And I'm pleased that you were able to be there at the end, even if he couldn't appreciate it himself.
What a massive hole he will leave in your life - you have my sincere sympathy.

glatt 12-31-2010 06:12 AM

I'm sorry for your loss, Spex. He sounds like a great guy.

Trilby 12-31-2010 06:43 AM

I'm sorry to hear this Spexx.

limey 12-31-2010 06:47 AM

So sorry Spexx. You have great memories of good times with your father. Keep those bright and let later, sadder, ones fade as they should.

Griff 12-31-2010 07:06 AM

I sorry for your loss man, but it sounds like Dad's life was rich with experience and quite complete. I don't know how anyone could ask for more.


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